She and my future baby daughter are dependent on me, but they are in a foreign country and there is no way she could ever track me down, and even if she did, it would be very hard to demand any child support.
2006-12-12 23:02:50 · 28 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is no way you are serious!
I cannot believe anyone would be so cold & heartless, not even you.
If you are effectively serious, then you should be reported to the relevant authorities at the earliest opportunity and, after a conclusive D.N.A. test, be made to pay child support until your daughter reaches adulthood.
Just out of curiosity, which foreign country are they in by the way?
I was going to wish you a Merry Xmas & a Happy New Year but forget it!!!
2006-12-12 23:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do the responsible thing and take care of that baby!! You're gf needs you now more than ever. If you didn't want a baby than you should of thought of that before you had unprotected sex. Stop being selfish and think of the little girl who will call you daddy. The least you could do is be a good father even if you don't want to be with you're gf anymore.
2006-12-12 23:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Michele S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be hard to demand child support all she has to do is say your the dad, the court will order a paternity test, and if you are the dad then you will be responsible for child support. If she knows your name they can issue a warrant for your seizure if you fail to comply with court orders.
Sounds like a dickish thing to do leaving your pregnant gf in the first place. If you do disappear it could be the best thing to happen to them, not having a deadbeat in their lives.
xxx
2006-12-12 23:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by xxxkittenxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you know what Awol is. Its when you leave a military base and don't show back up, they can find you and when they do (if you don't have certified referage in another country) you get arrested. ANYWAY
They are considered traders and cowards in there home country, and guess what THATS WHAT YOU ARE!!!!!!! Why don't you be a man about it, and take care of the child.
She is your daughter and deserves to have a loving family, that includes her mother AND FATHER!!!!!!
And since they are dependant on you, if you leave them YOU WANT THEM TO BE OUT ON THE STREET? SOME MAN YOU ARE I FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.
2006-12-12 23:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave them knowing they are dependent on you then you will reap what you have sowed. You had sex with her and got her pregnant it is your responsibility just as much as her. If you are not ready for this situation then be honest with her and talk to her about it. Leaving her is the worse thing you could do. You know how many single mothers out there have fatherless children? One make her suffer for a mistake you and her mother caused. Get your act together because running out on her is not an option. Sit down and talk, weigh the pros's and con's together and come to a better solution. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-12 23:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, running away and disappearing would make you look like a coward and a selfish bastard.
That's how you would look to them, initially.
Then they would move on and start their lives without you. Your son or daughter would probably never want to hear from you again, especially since your current gf will tell him or her about how much of a waste of scum she things you are.
You would probably have to start a new life, and you would most likely make the same mistake (it's statistically confirmed that we are creatures of habit).
You would probably leave behind a legacy of abandonment and pain and your name would go hand in hand with selfishness and waste of human life and cowardness.
But we're all friends here, right? Do as you wish. I'm not going to call you inconsiderate. Do what you want. Whatever you choose to do, if you're the one choosing it, you're right. You're never wrong.
But think about it. That's all I'm going to ask, I guess.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 23:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gf and future baby daughter depends on you not only because they needed you so much but because they love you with all they heart,enough for them to trust you that you'd always be a loving and a responsible father forever,If you think the obligations is too heavy for you,you better talk to your gf to help you....Dont do something that you'd regret in the future,you'll never know how blessed are you with your baby daughter
2006-12-12 23:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to run. Just tell her that you are not man enough to raise the child. If she demands money, you can plead poverty but then you will need to prove it & If you actually can but dont want to then maybe you should reconsider running.
You need to take responsibility for your actions.
2006-12-12 23:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to do this? you need to take some responsibility for the child. Even if you do not love the mother. This is your blood, your kid. She will find you eventually...and, you will regret it someday if you walk away.
2006-12-12 23:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a worthless excuse for a human being. Even if you absolutely hate this woman your child will suffer for the rest of her life.
2006-12-12 23:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋