I have been taking lunch with a British Muslim woman from work.. I have also been giving her lifts home from work. I guess in some ways we are more than just friends as we have kissed and have been out. She has not told her brothers or father about me...
When i got back to my apartment on Monday i was approached by 4 asians and told to keep away or i'd be stabbed and that this was my only warning,,, I really like this person but don't want to be stabbed.
Should i keep well alone.. I've avoided her in the office all week and not been to lunch with her. She has sent me emails which i've ignored too.. I've not told her what happened.
I really like her and feel the familys response is over the top considering they don't know me... i don't think they well stab me as i've seen these guys before at the gym... don't want to push it though...
2006-12-12 22:48:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They Will do it mate! Fcukin' Muslims are insane....I should know, my brother converted......They really are jacked in the head so stay away, No Arab girls worth it, have you seen what they look like when they hit 40?.....Don't underestimate these people, stupid as they are, they are driven by anger, bitterness and the need to be their religion fully and completely, they have one agenda and that's to conform to everything in their little book. for other Muslim's they have nothing but respect, for everyone Else nothing but disdain...NOT WORTH IT....................
2006-12-12 23:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is such a pity that muslims are very strict in following their religion.. I am a Muslim myself, who is in love with one from another religion, so i understand your point of view, as well as theirs.. Talk to the girl, tell her what happened and ask her of her opinions.. She knows about her family better, so get to know if all those were just threatenings or could be a real threat to u. Since u really like her, try to keep it low when going out with her, and not be spotted by ppl whom she might know.. Also, if u are thinking of marriage with her, maybe in the future, be aware that muslims who are strong followers of Islam, would want a muslim son-in-law.. so, either be prepared for a fight, or u convert into the religion.. In any case, all the best, and i hope u succeed..
2006-12-12 22:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should talk to her about it. Tell her what happened, and why you have been keeping your distance. Its not fair on her that you are now more or less ignoring her, after you seemed to be getting along so well. That way you can talk about whether you can go on seeing each other, and if you can have any sort of future together. She may also have better knowledge about these guys that threatened you, and if they are empty threats. Having said that, I think you should be careful, as I have heard unpleasant stories about some Muslims causing trouble when someone of their faith gets together with someone who does not belong to that religion.
I hope you work something out x
2006-12-12 22:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police. This is a threat on your life. I dont care what customs they might have that is NOT how we do things in this country. Also e mail the girl an tell her whats gone on as she will be feeling confused. If anybody reading this thinks the behaviour of these men is acceptable then you are wrong. If you want to live like savages then sod off to a place that allows you to. Britain is not for you
2006-12-13 02:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i don't even think you desrve her. I delivered that judgement because you appear to have a poisoned mind. Why couldn't your caption have read ".....threatened by the family of a girl i know"? I mean why the "Muslim" stuff? Is it a way of saying that their action is attributable only to their being Muslim? Don't others threaten people in that country? There are more murders (and murder is worse than threats) in Europe and America than other places. The murderes in Europe are not Muslims, so how would you caption their stories? How can they even allow you near their sister when they know your stereotype about them? Drop your primordial sentiments and stereotype, be less suspicious of them, court their friendship sincerely and maybe it will be better.
2006-12-12 23:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by aminu2763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been in a similar situation before and the best thing to do is just leave her alone, just give her the cold shoulder and say you met someone else or something... im a hindu myself so i know what muslims are like, they won't threaten anyone individually, they always got to be in groups. and when they are in groups its VERY likely that you will be hurt (stabbed, shot or burnt). its not worth putting your life on your line for scum, for these asian ba***rds or her (to put it frank).
they wont care if you seen them before or they see you anywere, its all heartless for them, they'll do what ever it takes to keep her away from a non-muslim, its their rules. i suggest you research on honor killing.
theres plenty of other woman out there, just dont get involved with her. trust me.
2006-12-12 22:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Marv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose they are really protective of her and you really should think of what the future could really hold for you both if this were to continue.(regardless of her religion) You obviously like her more than a friend and her you, so you should talk to her and let her know what's going on otherwise she might tell her brothers you were horrible and ignoring her - what would happen then.
2006-12-12 22:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by guccgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a discreet word with your young lady friend, explain the situation and if that doesn't work...........call immigration!!
Chances are they are just trying scare tactics but you're right to be a littel concerned as there are some nutters about (and I'm not just talking about Muslim Extremists!)
2006-12-12 22:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very very careful!!!! Moslems are apt to do this. They do not like their girls marrying outsiders. If you are messing around with this girl you are in deep trouble. If your intentions are good approach her father and ask to marry her and see what he says.She may already be betrothed and then you are in a mess.Please be very very careful. I have lived in India and seen what happens... It has also happened here in Southall. Do not take it for granted that they will not touch you. If they do not touch you they might touch or even kill her. Maybe one of the guys that came to your apartment was interested in the girl himself????
2006-12-12 22:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please Delete this question before George Bush sees it!
He will declare war with whichever family you are talking about, they will also go onto his Routes of all evil (naughty) list!
just get stabbed and let the rest of the world live in peace! also keep your pecker in your pants!
2006-12-12 22:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Nigi-magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋