how can i miss my X so much when he cheated on me...is it because i loved him so much and we dated for 7 yrs but broke up a couple of times??? or what i am so confused i want to tell him i love him still but i think because he hasnt moved on then he might think i want him back but i dont!!! help me! thanks
2006-12-12 22:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is better to tell him what you feels about him. Dont hide your feelings. if he had ever loved you he will give you a good response otherwise try to forget him, iknow it is hard but this is how life goes.
2006-12-12 22:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by aursbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal feeling for somebody like you to miss their x's especially if you shared a long relationship. Even counting the bad times that you ended up breaking several times. At this point you're right you still love him and your history keeps on playing in your head over and over.
He cheated on you then make up your mind if you want him back. Chances are when you end up getting married he will cheat again. If you want my advice leave him and in due time you'll see that you will heal and find yourself a better man.
2006-12-13 06:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww sorry to hear that but. you's were dating for seven years your bount to miss him its only natural. Remember you's broke up for a reason hun x. on the subject of wanting him back i think you should move i know thats probably not what you wanted but i know its hurt no1 said love was easy but you will feel better in time. hope everything turns out Good Luck !
2006-12-13 06:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will definitely miss him because of the moments you both shared. this possibly is the biggest break up between the both of you. so, its natural to miss him. all you have to do is make it clear to him that him cheating you, had caused major effects on you. make it clear to him that you didn't like what he did to you. at that moment, you can listen to his reply. he might say something that will change your perspective of him. possibilities are there, that you both are made for each other and that break up was just a test to check up on how strong your relationship is. and if such a thing doesn't happen, just lay back and do things that will get his thoughts out of your mind. i know that it's easier said than done, but you have to try to move on. moments like this will challenge your mental abilities. take the challenge and get over him! you can do it!
2006-12-13 06:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by drool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missing him doesn't mean that you love him...The reason you miss him is because of your long time spent with him. Just remember that he hurt you bad and you'll be a fool if call him.
2006-12-13 06:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were together 7 years, that imprints on your mind very strongly...
If you still want him, but not as a relationship, then just be friends with benefits... You know he isn't faithful, so don't expect him to be...
2006-12-13 06:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years is a lotta time to forget.. but you know, maybe we ain't supposed to respond to ALL our feelings.. so although u miss him so much, please try to move on..i'm guessin it's gonna be helluva tough thing to do, but it'll do u good in the end.. if u can't do this for urself, at least do it for him..
All de best k!
2006-12-13 07:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think you don't need any help cuz you just said what you wanted to tell him. But if you feel you can forgive him then in case he returns to you, "accept him"
2006-12-13 06:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by mortezakhorshidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
inspite of all this he should /could be accepted only if he desires for it if u wd take initiative it would be a disastor find a lower rank love pal
2006-12-13 06:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget him...try to find another one
i know ur heart still effected with ur experiance
but..TIME is removing everything
2006-12-13 06:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋