my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago.. i still love her and want her back, she said she is too young to be in a serious trelationship, but a week or 2 before we broke up she said she is really happy with our relationship she wanted a serious relationship , we dont even live together, we are both 19.. i took it hard, i begged her for nearly 2 weeks to take me back, i feel dump for begging, so im playing it cool now..she said she was goin to a bar the other nite i didnt go(keepin cool) dats what ive been told to do if i want her back..she rang the next day askin bout her stuff in my room.. she e mailed me today, i was just talking to her as a freind i acted as if i was fine... we where talkin bout casual stuff, then she asked me if i was with any other girl.. i said no, then she said i bet u are ,u can tell me i dont mind... do you think this means she still has feelings for me? if she really didnt care she wouldnt have asked in the first place,,,, i want other peoples oppinions.thanks
2006-12-12 22:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think she wants you back. she made that pretty clear. it might be that she still has feelings for you (which is why she wants to know) but not strong enough feelings to want to be with you. maybe she just wants to know if you're happy without her. most girls will still feel bad if their ex finds a new girl that fast, whether she's still interested in him or not.
2006-12-12 22:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, begging is not going to get you anywhere...it is doing more bad than good.....but you have obviousley already realised that....
The too young thing sounds like an excuse....if she was sure about the relationship she wouldnt be ending it......
The reason she is asking whether you have got with anyone else is because if you had, she would feel less guilty about finding someone as well....
Of course I don't know this for sure.....Just my opinion....
P.S. I'm not saying that she isnt interested......But why should you have to wait around for her? I would go out and take a look at all the other fish in the sea.....It's the best way of getting over someone!!
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2006-12-12 22:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Schafferius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You were a little dumb for begging, that puts her totally in control of the situation...
2) She sounds like she doesn't know what she wants...
3) She was seeing if you'd gotten over her and started seeing her...
4) I don't think she really cares about you now, she wants her stuff and to move on - I think she probably already has someone else, that was why she suddenly dumped you..
5) Move on, and find someone else - it'll be hard, but you'll start to forget about her little-by-little...
2006-12-12 22:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing the emotional mind games with you. you are like a puppet on a string and shes the one pulling your strings. she knows that no matter what she does youll always go back to her. play it cool and move on with your life. this girl is just gonna hurt you over and over and over again. is it worth all the pain and time waisted? she left you coz its obvious that she wants her bread buttered on both sides. let go let go let go!!!!
2006-12-12 22:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has meet someone else dude...Ask her outright and then you can move. We all get rejected at some point so don't take it to hard.
2006-12-12 22:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your girlfriend is immature, and purposely sending you mixed messages. She doesn't seem to want you, but she still wants you to want her. Don't play her games, make her be upfront.
2006-12-12 22:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id get over her she obviously likes somone else, there are plenty more fish in the sea
2006-12-12 22:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it.....Then look back, in a years time and laugh at yourself.
2006-12-12 22:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by siany warny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a very cold shower
2006-12-12 22:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋