I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, we were together 4 years. He said he doesn't want a relationship anymore (this has happened about 3 times in the four years we were together). He gets really stressed with work and rarely has time to himself, so everything gets on top of him. I miss him and want him back. Any advice for me? I haven't heard from him since that phone call, although i have texted him twice.
He lives about 40 minutes from me, so i could never see him.
I feel lost without him. I have gone out to pubs/clubs a few times since, but i always feel worse. I changed my whole style but i still don't feel any better. The doctor wants to put me on anti depressants. I lost my future as well as my boyfriend and best friend, i thought we would marry.
Does anyone have any advice for me? Do you think we will get back together? This is the longest time we have ever gone without talking.
Thank you x
2006-12-12 22:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by chionnoir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being desperately depressed and start to look at reality as it is. Despair, depression, and self-pity are overwhelming you and paralyzing you from reacting and doing something to make a change
Have the courage to see what is wrong in your relationship and to evaluate the things that you want and can change.
Start to live your life: invest yourself in work, studies, hobbies, friends, family etc. Take care of yourself by doing exercise, eating well and thinking positive thoughts to give you strength to continue and prevent despair and depression. You can become an active participant in your life by choosing to do what feels good for you.
2006-12-12 22:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OFCOURSE....... u can & u will but d only difference wud be - it will b d 4th time of ur reunion. Chill yaar ! its all a part of love life & if its not there u enjoy this relationship less.He just hav overburden of work & is tensed .Thats it. If u will be there with him it wil help him come out of his hectic life bcz love is d only thing which lessens or perhaps ends worries of life. If u cant visit him , try to contact him on phone , try to know d reason of his anger & if u hav done sumthing wrong just feel SORRY. evrithing will be fine . U know .....so long (4 yrs) relations dont end so quickly ... BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-12 22:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jannat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i want to say srry about all of this..i know how you feel sorta.. me and my bf just broke up a few months ago and i miss him but you see its different...he cheated on me but i was with him off and on since i was 7 and i am almost 17... but he was my love my future he was my everything he was my first everything almost... but yea anyways about you and your guy.. i really dont u or him so i cant really help you with saying if you will or not but if he really loves you and if you are meant to be then he will come back just give it sometime... i know that is hard trust me but if he really loves you he will come back if not then i am truely srry and the right guy is prob right in front of your eyes you just got look more :) keep your head up and keep in touch!!!
2006-12-12 22:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kill youself cos of this guy a lot of things might be hidden from u .try if u have the strenght to find out.but move on or change your environment to another.meet new ppple
2006-12-12 22:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by aschelock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what darling, what you are doing now is living for him. DONT live your life and move on. you have a whole life ahead of you you need to see the bright side
2006-12-12 22:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by raelo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i mean just make him feel that u want him back u know make him feel special 'cause i mean you've been together for like 4 years just try ok.
2006-12-12 22:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley Tisdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is possible
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2006-12-12 22:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋