2006-12-12 22:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither one of you is old enough to even know how to do "it"... don't even consider "it" till you are older!!!
2006-12-12 22:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it seems like consumating your relationship sounds like a good idea, 14 is still very young for having sex. Speaking from experience, if I could do it all over again, I would've waited because there are so many emotions and actions that can come from having sex-plus the risk of teenage pregnancy and STD's. Sex is a HUGE deal and if you have even an ounce of fear or you begin to question it, please hold off. You will know when the time is right.
A couple good rules of thumb....1st, if you can't even say sex, you probably shouldn't be having it. And, 2nd, if you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents about sex, it's probably not a good idea. Once you can talk to your parents about sex, then you might be mature enough to engage in it. Until then, enjoy your relationship without the stress of whether or not you should have sex. You will have plenty of time to worry about it later on in life. Good luck. I was trying to give you a mature answer while keeping your age in mind. (I wasn't trying to sound too parental. I remember how difficult these decisions were at 14.)
2006-12-12 22:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself some questions first:
are either of you ready to become parents? it can and does happen.
are you ready to quit school to get a full-time job to take care of your girlfriend and baby? you can't get a job and make enough money at age 14 to support yourself, girlfriend, and infant.
are you ready to take care of an infant? they require care 24/7.
can you afford the cost of "protection" every single time you have sex?
do you fully understand the reproductive process?
do you fully understand how a female's reproductive organs work?
if you answered no to any of these questions, you are not ready for a sexual relationship.
this is the time in your life when you should be living it up, learning about life, and the responsibilities/consequences of your actions. don't screw up your life by getting involved in "adult" behaviors and activities. the day will come when the time is right, and you'll be glad you waited.
2006-12-12 22:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem with one of my ex-boyfriends before. But before the two of you rush into anything, think about it. How would you guys feel if you guys broke up. The both of you would feel used and unhappy. Don't take a chance just because you guys have been dating for a year already.
Take things slow and I hope you and your girlfriend could use my advice somehow..
2006-12-12 22:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude so what you and your gf been thinkin about "it" dont do it youre not a little boy anymore but neither you are an adult and by the way its not even that good when its over trust me did "it" in the wrong age
2006-12-12 22:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 year olds should thinking about school, sports and the future. Give yourself time to grow.
2006-12-12 23:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by laney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not justify anything, nor how you feel for each other.. sex can change everything...wait until you're maturely and emotionally capable of the consquences of sex... i'de say around 17-18..
2006-12-12 22:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by marianne c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i suggest you both wait another year. what is the rush? don't forget this is also a time when hormones are in a surge and also curiosity to some extent sets in. so, bide your time."it" will always be there waiting when you both are well and truly ready..
2006-12-12 22:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by shamenteiwaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to control, think of something else or do something else to keep ur mind away from it
dont stay in a locked room with her only, it will be too hard for u to control especially when u havent learnt how
think of it only after marriage...
2006-12-12 22:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it....
You r too very young to think about it...
concentrate on oyur future....
dont spoil your life with these thoughts...
God bless you
2006-12-12 22:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about "it", concentrate on your studies and build a future for yourself.
2006-12-12 22:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋