Will it ever happen??? lol
I havent been myself since i was 27 and my mum died , but now im through that i just wanna crack on with life and have me own family but i feel like it will never happen! :(
2006-12-12 22:03:43 · 21 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shrak gumbo ya prob right .lol.
2006-12-12 22:18:40 · update #1
Get yourself a social life and get on some dating sites. Good luck
2006-12-12 22:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what... stop worrying about it!
You could meet someone anywhere; the Supermarket, local pub, gym, walking a dog.. you name it, there are endless possibilities. I met my Husband because he sent me a text by mistake. We've been married 3 1/2 years now! Some could say it was meant to be or that it was just by chance. Whatever the reason, it happened and I'm glad!
It sounds like you've had a hard time and now feel ready to get out there and live.
Make the most of everything. Widen your circle of friends and just enjoy life.
Women want a man that is happy and healthy. So look after yourself and have a good time. Oh and smile, 9/10 people will smile back! A smile can work wonders, especially if you're a little shy.
Good luck and I'm sure that you will find someone speacial in no time. x
2006-12-12 22:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ess-Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no you are thinking wrong
Who told you all those rubbish things that it will never happen and like that.......
You are just 31, you are still in the golden period of your life, just look for your match and go ahead
It is a great idea of having your own family, you have taken the right decision.
All what you have to do is to find a match for you and get married and trust me it is not a al hard to do.
I think you have been so conservative and reserved during this period and that's why you are feeling like it can't happen.
There is nothing wrong with you my frnd, you are being depressed uselessly. Just go ahead and make your life complete in itself.
If any type of help is needed, you can always ask me without any hasitation.
Cheer up !!
Best of Luck for your future life
don't forget me to invite in your wedding
2006-12-12 22:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 and feel the same although I haven't been through what you have
All my friends are in long term relationships or married and I feel like I am going to get left on the shelf!
Just keep going out and enjoy yourself try not to think about it I'm sure you will find someone
But if you don't lets be each others safety net if your not married by the time you're 40 and I'm not married either lets get married ah!
2006-12-12 22:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be optimistic...
Live life with a smile and positive outlook and things will happen for you. Life has many ups and downs and now after your big loss you are ready to bounce back....
Your Mum will want you to be happy and to stop grieving and move forward. Join some clubs get out more, be more social and bounce back.....
That advice is so good i'm going to take it myself....
Bounceback ability. I'm going to start by going for a Guinness at lunch and flirting with the barmaid!!
2006-12-12 22:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, grab a pint, and start talking to some ladies at the local instead of posting self-pity here!
31? You should still be enjoying life and not wondering if you will ever get married. Have some fun!
2006-12-12 22:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by sothere! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happens before it's time, I glad to hear that you've dealt with your grief, and now you want to take life by the horns and shake it up a bit, go ahead there's nothing stopping you, just yourself, stop looking for Mrs right she might be right under your nose, but you can't see her because your too busy looking for her outside, relax and enjoy the search, as we girls say "You have to kiss an awful lot of frogs, before you get a prince, or princess in your case.
2006-12-12 22:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 1 and 1/2 years to tell my Mom goodbye after she died. Then I could finally stop crying every day and try to get on with my life.
What I got on to was 6 more years of depression. Last year my Dr. ran blood tests to check my thyroid only to learn it was under functioning. With a prescription I was normal in ONE month.
I was amazed to feel good and Happy again. It had been so long.
Get on multi vitamins and yes they help you feel better, and get a check up.
Then you will know your ready to tackle a healthy life again. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-12-12 22:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can have a family, but not everyone can have a happy healthy family. If you rush your chances of finding the good stuff might decrease. Go out and date, and if you want you can even adopt. Be careful of finding a mother in your date, or g/f or interest. She might not be able to fulfill expectations which you may not know you have of her. Don't shrug it off. If you mentioned your mom it is likley that it still plays a role in you, and the effects are not completely worn off. You might want to have a family to substitute for loss. A loving family is one where you give, and one where you start off my wanting to give, not take. Be sure...what your motives are to want to settle so badly. Don't trick yourself, honest with yourself.
2006-12-12 22:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Gay Juliet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
course it will!!!! You probably just havent met the right girl yet - obviously loosing your mum had a traumatic effect on your life - but you seem to be back on track now so go about getting yourself out there and finding miss right! xx
2006-12-13 01:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋