2006-12-12 22:00:45 · 31 answers · asked by Beccy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
say you are calling a truce, and make up
2006-12-12 22:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by sukis 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I told my mom that I was marrying a man that she did not like. However, I still invited her to the wedding. She was decent the whole day. A couple of months later, we reconciled our relationship and she became one of my best friends. She died a year ago in November and I am so glad that we made up.
The bond between a mother and child is so very precious. You will never know how much you love your mom or how much you need her until she's not here anymore.
I would call her and let her know what's going on with you. Tell her that you would like to reconcile your relationship-or at least work on it, if that's what you want. Please don't take time for granted. If you are truly interested in having a relationship with your mom once again, call her immediately and try to work things out. You never know how much time a person has. No one knows. You two may have a lot to work on and she may not be happy at first, but at least you will be honest and true to yourself.
2006-12-13 06:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why didnt you come to the wedding mum i sent an invite and you haven't been returning my calls, i left messages with dad.
2006-12-13 08:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what your reasons are for the length of time, and why you did not invite her? Depending on how you can handle rejection in the event you can not agree to disagree, you need to have the willingness to hear what she is saying to you. Try to be calm when you call. Mom ,I want to apoligize for my behavior toward you, if I hurt you I am sorry. It is my deaire to make amends to you, ask for your understanding, forgiving me for my actions, and know I miss and Love you. Mom we all make mistakes, I could not stand having you out of my life, can we work on the issue or get help from someone to work it out, so we have a better understanding of each other? Good Luck! I love you MOM!
2006-12-13 06:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Mum, just phoning to tell you I love you and will be thinking of you over Christmas. See where the conversation goes from there!
2006-12-13 06:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by lynne 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi mom can we talk. Talk to her and let her know you do not like things being the way they are. Let her know you love and miss her. She is your mom and she will listen and love and forgive. She will be hurt because she did not get invited to your wedding. But again she will forgive because that is what moms do. They love their kids no matter what happens. Good Luck!
2006-12-13 06:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by d3midway semi-retired 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't phone, Go and see her, tell her that you are very sorry for the problems that have been between you both, and how much you do love her and you want her back in your life. Please don't let this go on any longer, she's your mum and she won't always be there, so Cherish her while you can.
2006-12-13 19:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be difficult but so rewarding. Say hello and take it from there. My sister has not spoken to my parents for so long now but I know that my parents are waiting for the day she rings them up. The love for your children never dies
2006-12-13 06:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by entertainer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch Dr Phil.
2006-12-15 20:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth, do not lie to her or make up white lies, or ask for approval or acceptance. Those will or will not be given to you, but it seems like you thought the answer was no. Tell her that you did not feel comfortable, that you were scared of her opinion, and that you do wanna let her know of your decision becasue she is your family. you cannot make her like your spouse, but you can be honest, and at least keep that door open.
2006-12-13 06:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Gay Juliet 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just call her anyway. Its never too late to mend a broken relationship with your mum. You will need her sometime in the future, especially if/when you have kids. But apologise to her first.
2006-12-13 06:04:17 · answer #11 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋