Just being curious. Its 2006 alright, but is a relationship always based on sex? Or is being a virgin a turn off or turn on? Shouldn't a guy respect you if you arn't ready for it...even though he has confessed that he loves you? Thanks.
2006-12-12 21:57:59 · 23 answers · asked by krissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys should respect you for wanting to wait. Yes they do think it's sexy hoping that they will be the one you choose when you are finally ready for "it" but guys are also guys, they want the sex. If a man truly loves you, he would not pressure you into "it". If it's really love I would think he would be proud of his girl not giving her virginity away to the first guy that asks.
2006-12-12 22:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol o god nice i just seen this one up front..... a guy will only say he loves you for one thing sex . unless it has been more than 5-8 month i am talking a girl that has never had sex but i love her and respect her very much i belive if she is redy thens its good if she is not ready than its even better this shows that she is just makeing shure im the person she wants to be with and love ++++++++if you are not ready then he will wait for you because he realy does love you++++++++++
2006-12-12 22:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ace_Spade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but is a relationship always based on sex? only if you want an early end to it,,,,,, Or is being a virgin a turn off or turn on?,,,,,,,,, it's a physical thing not really mental, love is love ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Shouldn't a guy respect you if you arn't ready for it...,,,Yes,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,even though he has confessed that he loves you?,,,,,,,,,,,, a guy WILL say ANYTHING if it gets him in your panties,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-12-12 22:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by txtx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you.
Even if he says he loves you, but if not respecting you, don't trust him blindly.
As far having sex, my personal opinion is that Sex Must not be a base for the relationship, it should be taken as a part of your love life.
Do it with the man whom you love truely by your heart, and who loves you truely by his heart.
Next up to you...... it's your life !
2006-12-12 22:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by shon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but, if you let yourself into a situation where it would be easy to have sex, whom do you blame. It's easier for a girl to run with her skirts up, than a boy with his pants down. Get it.
If this can't be accomplished and the aspirin between the knees doesn't work then carry protection of some kind.
2006-12-12 22:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you wait until you are ready. if he don't like itmyou got the wrong guy. make him hit the road. he might just want sex and there is really no love.
2006-12-12 22:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is more than sex,Love is having deep feelings and caring for that person and making love is sex
2006-12-12 22:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Young boi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. A relationship should NOT be based on sex. It actually is friendship in love! :o) And having sex is more of closure thing.
That is my opinion. :o)
2006-12-12 22:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give in? Give up. It's not about giving in. It's right only when it's so bad for you that you can't hang on another minute without it and that doesn't happen till you're like 45, honey, trust me.
2006-12-12 22:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We teens totally get drived into having sex with our boyfriends, at such a young age..I suggest, as girls, we need to take things slow and wait till we get married. But even if you are gonna have sex, make sure your boyfriend uses a condom..Teehee..
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 22:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋