I have a girlfriend.I love her very much.she also love me very much.But her mother can't stand the idea of love marrige.
now my girlfriend can't hurt her mother.so she have decided to break our relation.I realy love her very much.
i can't live without her.Now i am in deep problem.Give me a solution,plezzzzzzzz!!!!
2006-12-12 21:51:00 · 26 answers · asked by Arnab R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You cant live with out her.You have made it clear.
You also say that you both love each other very much.Then how come she turned out with courage to live without you?
Ask yourself and ask your girlfriend whether you love each other or not.If her mother has problem with love marriage that can be confronted with dialogue by elders like your parents.Once parents know that you are serious in your relationship, they wont resist.
Most important thing you need to know about is that your girlfriend is true to you or not.[NO OFFENCE TO GIRLS].Its quite possible that she is making an excuse to get rid of you.and its very common for girls/boys to make their parents an excuse to skip out of relationships.
Be sensible man and show some courage you have your parents and friends who love you more than anything, You will be alright.Take Care.
2006-12-12 22:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Aquila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love needs a lot of faith & commitment. You have stated that you love her and she also loves you. I have my own doubts.
Love marriage is not something illegal or criminal. She is supposed to take a stand. At the most, you could make your parents comfortable and agreeable to approve the marriage after a lot of persuation. If you are eligible & suitable by all means, her mothers being against the very idea of love marriage is something unacceptable in the contemporary times. So, you could just give it a try to convince the mother of your girl friend.
If your girlfriend is unable to tackle the issue at this moment, there are chances that she will not be a support in your future life which you would like to spend together. Could you rely on such a spineless life partner?
FORGET HER, if you have put in all efoorts to convince her and her mother.
2006-12-12 22:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you're extremely keen to have your female chum. In India this is not a topic to get pretend delivery and caste certificate. you actually ought to bribe the right authorities. 1000's of persons in India do it. yet fairly, i have under no circumstances heard of an social gathering at the same time as a guy does it to marry his female chum. also do not ignore that your replaced age and caste is going to stay with you and may influence your job or different opportunities on your life, till you go about making a 2d replace later on. that could contain more desirable issues. So, you more desirable ideal be careful about this step on the very outset. the finest way, by using a ways is to target to convince your female chum's mom. Conviction and perseverance may be functional you. you should use each of the powers of your persuasion to cajole her to the idea of your and your female chum's mutual happiness. If needed, enlist the recommendations of your pals, father and mom and correctly wishers on your attempt. And ask your female chum to talk for your mom a touch on your behalf. i'm constructive that at the same time you could prevail on her.
2016-10-18 05:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she asked her mother before loving you, then why is she doing all these nakras that she cannot go against her mothers wish. This clearly indicates that she is not interested in you or else she must have got somebody else to love. If she really loves you tell her to come with you and get married and you both go and take her mothers blessings, if she is not interested leave her alone and find some one else.
2006-12-12 22:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mamta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the mother is standing in the way. Well the first thing to do is find out why??
and try to solve the problem together by talking. I hope this works.
2006-12-12 23:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u do if u r in the same situation? just think about her. if u love her plz do as she want. bcz love means not u get your dream girl, that call love. love means how can u sacrifice to make your lover happy, if she is happy in this breakp do as a good fnd and make up your mind for long lasting relation with her as a good human being. love means what you can for your lover to see her in good mood. think about your mother when u wet your bed, your mother sleep on the wet side but she want 2 see happy u at any cost, that is the real love. just do it like that kind of passion for your lover.
2006-12-12 23:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by prem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not to adopt the way of getting married as accepted by her mom i.e. arranged marriage yes problem could arise if u do not come up to the standards set by her mom if so then le me know in detail and solution for each drawback could be worked out or u urself would realize that her mom was right
2006-12-12 22:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARNAB, TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AUR AAP SAB MILKHE USKE GHAR JAO ( I MEAN YOUR GIRLFRIENDS HOUSE) AUR SHAADI KI BAAT PAKKI KARO.IF YOU TAKE YOUR PARENTS ALONG WITH YOU THEN IT WONT BE A LOVE MARRIAGE STYLE, IT WILL BE MORE LIKE AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE KIND OF A STYLE.
DONT LOSE HER ARNAB COZ TRUE LOVE HAPPENS ONLY ONES IN A LIFE TIME. JUST TRY THIS IDEA , IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER , JUST GO FOR IT.
PYAAR KIYA TO DARNA KYA:-)
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST ARNAB AND WILL PRAY FOR YOU THAT YOU GET MARRIED TO YOUR LOVER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. GOOD LUCK :-) AND DONT LOSE HOPE.
2006-12-12 23:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but your girlfriend should have NOT let her mother have her way!!!
That does not make for strong relationship. Hopefuly the gf will realize what she's done and want to go back to you.
2006-12-12 22:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur family if they r fine wid dis relation if No then ur in truble but if Yes den ask them 2 talk 2 her mother. Im sure she would hve no objections then
2006-12-13 02:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋