2006-12-12 21:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know I have been asked this by two of my closest mates recently and I will say to you what I said to them.
You just need time, nothing will stop the pain you feel but time makes it easier to cope with. You will meet someone else in the future and everything you are going through now will not hurt as much.
To make things easier surround yourself with your friends, do things that you enjoy (even if you don't really feel up to it and you just want to mope about) and talk to people, tell them when you are hurting and when you need support.
You will be fine even if you don't think that at the moment.
Take good care of yourself.
2006-12-13 02:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah... time. Not the answer your looking for. But my experience is that it takes time. And sometimes you never really completely get over the person. But someone else always comes along, usually when your not looking. But time is the best way. Venting to friends is always a great way to help get through it as well.
2006-12-13 06:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by mavrickatasu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best suggestion is time. Slowly but surely time cures most things.
Try to distract yourself as much as possible.
Occupy yourself with other friends.
And most important, Forgive Yourself.
Here is a highly important thing to remember for your entire life. "All things happen for a reason" just because Now you don't know what it was, doesn't mean there wasn't a good reason.
Throw yourself into the holidays for distraction.
Happy Holidays.
2006-12-13 05:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartache is one of the hardest things to get over .... but time lessons the pain ... there's no easy way ... just move on with your life and try not to make the same mistakes again
Good Luck :)
2006-12-13 05:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to just do that, it is difficult cos u are partly to be blamed.if u feel that the relationship can not be rectified,please move on and get another, life is worth living and enjoying.life goes on.
2006-12-13 05:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by aschelock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find a new b/f, and you will. You will have a job remembering what the old one looked like, unless you keep a photograph.
2006-12-13 06:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ted T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on and not repeat the mistakes.
It is hard but with time, it will get better.
2006-12-13 06:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well find someone new and carry on with your life
2006-12-13 05:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by nonickforme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. you're days of enjoying love are over. just take yourself off the market and hang it up. Its all dowhill from here.
2006-12-13 05:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time will heal all wounds.
dont think too much about it. :D
2006-12-13 05:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋