so there's this guy at my school, and whenever we see each other he would give me a big smile along with a 'hey' and i would return it exactly the same way, and then as we walk past each other i think he tries to make eye contact and it seems like he wants to say some more but then decides against it. a few days ago, we saw each other, and he said 'hey' along with my name with a big smile and i said 'hey' back. the next day we saw each other, and he only said 'hey' and asked 'how are you?'. naturally, i returned the greeting and then i had to go off somewhere (but he was with his friend). the thing is is that i really really like him, but i don't know whether he likes me or not, because i think he's really scared about it if he does like me. and i'm scared to tell him my feelings cos i don't have the guts for that. what should i do?
2006-12-12 21:28:34 · 13 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, congratulations. You have found a guy who likes you as much as you like him. Now, the next time you see him and he walks by with his big smile, say hey back and smile and tell him to come here. When he comes over, ask him How's his day going and what's he doing for the weekend? And then he'll tell you and ask you the same thing back. And hopefully he'll get the hint and ask you out. But if not, then talk about a movie that's coming out that you really want to see. And he will probably do the same. If it all works out, you'll be going on a nice date soon. Good luck.
2006-12-12 21:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by nochickenhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it up to him. Men are always easier to deal with when they think they're the ones who initiate things, so just wait and see how long it takes him to get past the early stages. You may want to help it along by dropping something as you approach him,.. like a book .. and see if he stops an picks it up for you. Then, he may say more, with a reason. The ones who are careful like that are nicer than the ones who run up and grab onto you. Modesty is so nice to see in a boy.
2006-12-12 21:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by JOYCE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a friend who knows him or if you can get the nerve to ask his friend, have them find out for you. See, if you have somebody ask, then he will know that you are interested. If he is not, he will tell them but not be offended. Go for it. Remember, it is not looks, popularity, nor money that will give you happiness with your husband in the future, it is the kind of boy/man that is kind, loving, and considerate that will make you happy for the rest of your life. Find a Christian man.
2006-12-12 21:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out already
He wouldnt be saying Hey if he didnt like you, so just ask him if he wants to catch a film or go into town after school with you. Its pretty simple, plus it allows you to figure out iof he likes you that way or not. If he does then he will accept, if he doesnt then its his loss
2006-12-12 21:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you too but is shy (maybe even more so than you). just start a conversation with him the next time that is something more than 'hey'. because this wont work if both of you are shy; one of you has to be a bit more upfront, and if that person has to be you then go for it ;)
2006-12-12 21:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see him after say "hey" to each other. Pinch his buttcheeks. See what happens from there. If he ignores the whole thing, forget about him.
2006-12-12 21:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by HMONG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find the oppurtunity to have an actual conversation with him, then youll find out how he feels about you, plus youll find out if hes even your type at all!!!
2006-12-12 21:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Just go ahead let him know about your feeling. as you described I am almost sure that he will eagerly receive you and would love to hear you say you like him
Just go ahead and do not feel scared
Hope it works
2006-12-12 21:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by mortezakhorshidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may or may not like you.
You should try to get to know him better, find something to talk about other than "hey"
2006-12-12 21:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by idontknowjustgivemeaname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't generally as perceptive as women about such things. If you don't tell him that you like him he won't know.
2006-12-12 21:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋