been friend for 26yrs, he was flirty & touchy with me, told him i had feelings 4 him, he back off, treated me like **** as i flirted with another guy, twice its happens, both times he spoke bout it, had arguement twice, not text each other since the nite i flirted with the guy, he came rd other day and said hello but i ignore him!! have i done the right thing????
ive been told that i havent and i should have spoken to him!! i miss him & his company!!! i want the closeness back like we had b4
2006-12-12 21:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by brownie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him and say sorry for whatever! You don't want to lose him coz you've been friends forever. I think he likes you as well but just scared to admit it. Damn it !you like each other but both of you are in denial.
Ok just call him and talk to him ask him if he doesn't want you flirting with other guys then you won't(if he's around LOL)
Ignoring him was a normal reaction from you,you were mad aftyer being treated like @@@ but what can you do. You give him attention and he backs off,you get another guy(to make him jealous?) and he gets mad.
Just be with him and make up. If you end up with him good and if not he is still your friend so don't expect more than that and you will both be happy.
2006-12-12 21:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you. So I had to say that you both are playing some kinda game, and that he's very immature to be tearting you like that, and you to not knowing what you want. If you like the guy don't ignore him. Be honest, and ask him of his intentions, but be prepared to accept any answer. As long as you hide, and not let him know what you want from him you cannot xpect him to come around. I know you must like this guy a whole lot if u still miss him after he was a jerk to you. But be honest with yourself frist, and ask yourself if you would tolerate this treatment from your best friend. If he treated you like **** when you were honest he clearly cannot appreciate you, and is not sensitive in general. Do u want someone who cannot treat you with tenderness and respect as you reveal your feelings? Redefine closeness...Good luck.
2006-12-13 05:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Gay Juliet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's the right thing but I would have done the same thing. I don't believe you two will every be that close again especially if you keep flirting with him. It's obvious that that's not what he wants from you. If possible sit down and talk about all that has happened between you and him and decide where to go from there.
2006-12-13 05:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋