im into astrology im a cancer my girlfriends a scorpio i tend to be whiney and such im also paraniod weve been having some problems with me checking her email and making somethink out of nothing i think i just feel left out of her online life cause im at work all day so ladies what should i do to calm myself down and stop being so paraniod so i dont drive her away???
2006-12-12 20:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by DennyLee3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a scorpio with all of the privacy and sexual issues.
I'm not sure that you'll every be calm if you rely on astrology as a way to predict your relationship - if that's what you're doing. But a surefire way to upset any woman is not to trust her - especially if she has done nothing to make you distrustful.
If she is not exibiting behaviors that make you feel she is cheating then why are you worried about her being on-line? If she isn't dating her Dell then be calm.
Not sure how to help you, honey except to say that I'm on line alot and it has nothing to do with how faithful I am. And that's from a Scorpio - if it matters.
2006-12-12 21:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already halfway there! Just being able to admit that you have a problem is part of the solution. Why don't you go see your local Therapist. If you don't know of one, your Local GP will be able to refer you to one. Talk to this person. They will help you to control your jealousy and your snooping. You could also try talking to your girlfriend and telling her what you have told us. She too will probably appreciate the fact that you realise you have a problem, and want to do something about it. And yes - if you carry on, you will drive her away!
2006-12-12 21:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spying on her is only going to drive her farther away. Unless she has betrayed your trust then i don't think you have any reason to be checking up on her. I don't think astrology plays any part here. It is just a lack of trust. If there is no trust then is there really a point?
2006-12-12 21:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think theres anything to say. this is obviously a trust and self esteem issue. no one can really help with that. you have to figure out why you do these things, and why you feel so insecure...(such a cancer...ugh)
dont be snooping though, i would have kicked your a** to the curb already...your kinda lucky.
2006-12-12 20:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then stop snooping in her mail. Did she do something for you to not trust her?
You WILL drive her away if you keep this up!
2006-12-12 21:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there a problem with you seeing her mail? She might just be trying to hide something from you.
2006-12-12 21:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure it has nothing to do with your zodiac signs or anything to do with superstitious beliefs...maybe you're just feeling insecure that's why you kept on checking her e-mail...when she finds out about that she'll get really angry i'm sure of that..just try to manage your time like on every sunday try to chat with her or try playing online games with her like ragnarok...rf online..gunboung WoW... that way you can chat and play at the same time!! also try to spen time with your friends whenever you feel out of place
2006-12-12 21:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cirno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 05:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is nothing why do you want to think it is something. just stop thinking on those lines and be yourself. stop checking her e mails, if they are driving you crazy.
2006-12-12 21:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious that you see these things arent appropriate. When you catch yourself wanting to do them, tell yourself no and stop before you do them.
2006-12-12 20:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by idontknowjustgivemeaname 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋