i dont know whats wrong with me im an attractive female and im a great person so why have i never had a boyfriend, im just tired of feeling lonley and just having booty calls i why is it so diifuclt to find a man these days what can i do or what am i doing wrong helppp!!! im a 21 year old who never had a man and im afraid im going to be single forever
2006-12-12 20:54:45 · 16 answers · asked by DulceVeneno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places be patient and let the love come to you get to know a person before you get into anything sexual communication is the key word
2006-12-12 21:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by TAE M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this question you haven't mentioned weather you had any crushes or not? if you ave just try to get the attention from him.i know its very difficult to accept the truth and i know how hard it is to initiate this since you don't have any experience.You have mentioned that you are an attractive person so i don't think that you need to worry about your outer appearance.but don't start an affair in a hurry because it can drag you in to a deep trouble.think twice before you take a decision.don't be hurry.let the time sort everything.You are still 21 theres a friend of mine whose around her 30s so don't worry be cool.
2006-12-12 21:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't really been without a boyfriend for 21 years, maybe compared to others you are running 5 years late but this at your age is no issue at all. You have youth and you are attractive. I met my first girlfriend at the age of 21 and looking back it was when I had given up and didn't care... that's what made me attractive to her...I wasn't desperate...stay in physical shape, mental shape and be positive... this could be your year!
2006-12-12 21:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably only feel lonely due to society's pressure for people to not be single - 21 years of age is not that old to have not had a boyfriend - you might be placing yourself under too much pressure - enjoy single life and you'll find you'll meet someone soon. Take the pressure off yourself.
2006-12-12 20:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is that you still are young and yes I know many people out there your age have boyfriends but it is truly worth it waiting for someone you a really interested in and not take anyone. My best friend is 32 and she is still waiting for Mr Right.
2006-12-12 20:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 05:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M also 21 n single yet.
I also feel as if m going 2 b single forever....
2006-12-12 21:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you grant a booty call if you arent dating? thats your problem right there - thats a what a tramp does. what incentive do the men have to date you if they can just sleep with you with out the dating?
you have to hold them and yourself to a higher standard.
its not hard to find a man- but you have to actually look for a MAN. someone with honor and kindness and strength. what is the criteria you are using in your search for a man?
try yahoo personals, ok cupid, and myspace. plenty of good guys. look for the ones who constantly strive to improve themselves and the world around them. good luck.
2006-12-12 21:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wont be single forever, if you want a boyfriend then try getting to know guys at work, school, or where ever you hang out at, get to know him better befor asking him out. since your attractive and all, im sure the guys wont say no
2006-12-12 20:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by B3MR2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you say you are "attractive" and a 21 year old female.
You also add that you feel that you will be single, forever.
You furthermore say that you have "never had a boyfriend".
****... that sucks.
Nothing but "booty calls"..................
I feel so bad for you......
Give me a break... you must check in at 250+lbs.
Put down the cell phone and the Cheetos......
Damn.....
2006-12-12 21:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋