im 18 and my girlfriend is 14 we never had sex and only seen eachother 3 times, we have been going out for a month
Her dad has found out about us and has gone to the police.
what can the police do as we havent had sex
2006-12-12 20:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by mattman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even stress it man, If you never had sex and have only seen her 3 times your fine.....As long as your not harassing her or the parents no authority figure will have the means to go into something as childish as this...Just a piece of advice though, her parents sound crazy protective, don't ever talk to her again and you may not see her but that is the price you pay until she is 18 years old like you.
2006-12-12 21:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The police can't do anything at the moment. The father is over-reacting, although I think he's right to be concerned. You shouldn't be getting any ideas about having sex with this very young girl, because it's called statutory rape in many states. And what this means is that sex with any female under 16 is illegal. You need to do some maturing, and find women closer to your age. If you feel like you can't live without her, it indicates that you are needy and dependent. Get some help and stay out of trouble.
2006-12-12 21:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are silly for getting involved with a girl that young although you are still just a baby yourself really
I don't know any rules with the police but if what you say is true & the girl agrees
you will be ok I think
let this be a learning lesson to you to only date girls your age & over 16 no matter how old they look & act
2006-12-12 21:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can't do anything but they will probably give you a warning for being with a minor or YOU COULD GO TO JAIL.. It's so stupid of you to even be with a minor, I've known allot of girls to get guys in trouble over this sort of thing even when the two weren't having sex, 14 year old girls tend to feel to much pressure under the parental supervision and allot feel scared and LIE because they get confused.. I don't care how trust worthy she is or anything else for that matter, If you don't want to find your a.ss in jail then you need to get with girls that are of legal age :) :) :)
2006-12-12 21:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont need to have sex with a 14 year old to go to jail!
If you are just caught trying to tell her stories to take her to bed you are done for few months / years (i am not sure about the term)
2006-12-12 21:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by syd_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police can't do anything but she's just 14. Think about that. Let her be a kid for now okay?
2006-12-12 20:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police have something called a 'duty to society' this allows them to kill, maim or humiliate you for any relationship which you may have with a person below the age of 15. I hope this helps.
2006-12-12 20:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police cannot do anything, just be friendly with the girl and every thing follows when you grow up.
2006-12-12 20:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm....doesnt really matter...and what the hell are you doing with a 14 year old? i kind of cant blame her dad, he doesnt know that you guys havent done anything...i would take what kids your age say with a grain of salt too.
2006-12-12 20:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing, no sex no crime. but keep your distance for awhile. your girlfriend is what we call "jail bait". and us guys are not always thinking rationally, hormones dude. watch out.
2006-12-12 20:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋