My boyfriend said, - i love you,? and I was so excited and so freaked out that I didn't say
anything back. We met on http://www.blackcentury.com and we both think love is color blind. I'm white and he is black man. He looked like he wanted to die with embarrassment, but I just couldn't say it. He's been avoiding me, now. What should I do? If you also belive 'love is color blind', this site would be fit for you:)
I'm waiting for your help. Hurry! We have a candle supper this weekend.
Help! My boyfriend said, - i love you,?What should I do? Hurry!?
2006-12-12 20:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by Coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't love him then don't say it back, that would be wrong. If he says it again say something like, " I care a lot about you, im just not sure if i feel that way about you yet."
if you do love him then say it back
2006-12-12 20:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by idontknowjustgivemeaname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry tell him you love him too. By the way why do you specify that he is black and love is colour blind or may be you are ashamed you are in love with a black guy. Sorry black guys out there who are surrounded by white people i really do petty you guys. Please think of coming back to your origin otherwise life will never change, you will always be black guys who are shame to white arrogant specimen.
2006-12-12 20:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off on that candlelit supper, and try something like skating in the park. It sounds like he's moving too fast, because he's made you uncomfortable. Talk to him in an environment that is not geared for romance (candlelit supper) about how you're glad he thinks you're so special, but that you need to move at a slower pace.
2006-12-12 20:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him but don't say you love him too, unless you feel the same way! Don't rush! Wait until you feel it and then say it! If you tell him so and you don't mean it you'll hurt him more! When you talk to him, tell him that you feel very strong feelings but not ready to know what they really means!
The reason that he is avoiding you is that he is embarrassed and afraid that you don't feel the same way too!
2006-12-12 20:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, tell him you love him if you do... go on gurl.. just let it out!
since you'll have a candle supper coming, why not buy him a present (a peace offering stuff like that since he was embarrased) and tell him how you feel.. explain to him that you were just shocked and couldn't say a word..
2006-12-12 20:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by _nakahhidit_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is? do u love him?
if you do..then what r u waiting for??
Say it!
but if your not sure, tell him so he would not think your insensitve or playing around.
Just dont rush into things just because he said he loves you. nowadays, people say that without really meaning it at all. Its up to you to find out if his sincere or not.
2006-12-12 20:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is a good thing to hear. But you should find out if he really mean it. If his actions tell you that then he is a man of his words and it is great. How do you feel about him???
2006-12-12 20:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to say it back, DO NOT FEEL PRESSURED INTO DOING SO.
If he can't respect it, then that's not cool. You have a right to your own individual growth and sense of being ready.
Explain to him how you feel, but also why you don't feel ready to say it (if that's the case). Just communicate.
2006-12-12 20:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that i ant say it yet but i do, its just hard 4 me 2 say it thats all x
2006-12-12 20:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋