My boyfriend said, - i love you,? and I was so excited and so freaked out that I didn't say anything back. We met on http://www.blackcentury.com and we both think love is color blind. I'm white and he is black man. He looked like he wanted to die with embarrassment, but I just couldn't say it. He's been avoiding me, now. What should I do? If you also belive 'love is color blind', this site would be fit for you:)
I'm waiting for your help. Hurry! We have a candle supper this weekend.
2006-12-12 20:39:56 · 5 answers · asked by Coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't feel the same yet let him know. But tell him you do care about him and when you do feel love, he'll be the first to know. I hope things work out.
2006-12-12 20:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Meeeeee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ALSO BELIEVE THAT LOVE IS COLOR-BLIND, BUT that's not really the point to your question. If you were that excited and freaked out when he said, "I love you." You must have not given this man that much thought. If he is so embarrassed and he is avoiding you; that you two are not that well connected. Go ahead and have your "candle supper this weekend." Think long and hard of your true feelings, maybe this time of absence will help you realize your hearts' emotions. GOOD LUCK, friend! :-) Make sure it's not just lust you feel for each other. Love is entirely different from lust. Do not be afraid to be free to answer his "I love you", by telling him that you are fond of him---especially if you are not in love with him. Be kind, whatever you do, there are nice ways to break up or put a pause on a relationship.
2006-12-13 05:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, say it back. If not, tell him the relationship is moving too fast.
2006-12-13 04:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how long you've been together.
Love takes time. Maybe it's alittle soon. Tell him that.
2006-12-13 04:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything you dont mean....think about how you feel and then tell him..
2006-12-13 04:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋