Is it smart to start a precedent early in the relationship?

Question

I am prob going to get on to a lady tomorrow have seen her 3 times, should i help out the kids and run around being nice and laugh at her jokes and not let her know when i am in a bad mood or should i just be myself even though she will prob not be keen
thanks

Answer 1

be yourself! but don't overdo it! you have only seen her 3 times and it's a bit early to go to the toilet with the door open or tell her you don't like the food she cooks or that her kids are making too much noise...

Answer 2

depends on what you are looking to get out of it, i say if you are looking for something serious then you should try to be yourself you don't want to get involved with someone that can't handle you when you are mad sad or in any other mood, a good partner is someone that will except you for whatever you throw at them, except betrayal of trust, which is understandable, if you looking for a good time just play along but don't lead either make sure she knows but thats my opinion.

Answer 3

Always be yourself...you will end up that way in the end and nobody needs any surprises in a relationship.

Answer 4

be yourself or she will not fall in love with you for who you are. if you pretend to be someone you are not then you will get sick of playing the role after awhile and get fed up with the relationship. just be yourself. thats what you want to someone to love you for.

Answer 5

u should be your self... If u are with someone u are not your self that is bad.... Be yourself and if she doesn't like who u really are is not worth it.

Answer 6

Just be yourself, don;t be someone you are not but do be courteous and kind.