i just broke because she was pissed that we were still pals with my ex-girlfriend.
what can i do,i love her?
2006-12-12 20:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by good kisser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women just want to feel that they come first. If you two were in a relationship and yet your Ex was still hanging around, it may have made her feel that you were putting your friendship with her, before your new relationship.
I think you need to chose. Why is it so important to stay good friends with your Ex? Do you still love her?
I think that these are the questions going through your Girlfriend's mind.
You can't change her mind if she feels that it is definately over but you can be honest and tell her how you feel.
Tell her that you love her and that if your Ex makes her feel threatened that you will distance yourself. Tell her that you want her back so bad that you even asked advice from stangers on the web! lol
Honestly, just be honest. She could be sat there now thinking that you couldn't have loved her cos you haven't tried to save the relationship, only confirming in her mind that your Ex is more important.
Go for it.... Good Luck and be happy!!!!
2006-12-12 21:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ess-Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you both pals with the ex? Either way - ditch the ex completely - she is an ex, not a current.
Make some kind if gesture to the girl you want back, let her know that she is the most important person to you and that the ex is on the scene no more!
If that doesn't work you have no choice but to move on.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 20:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard for a female to accept that an ex is still on the scene, she must be feeling insecure, do you give her reason to be?
explain to her she is the only one that you love and if you still loved your ex you'd still be together. make her feel shes the only one by giving her the attention she needs and telling her the right things.
stay friends with your ex but don't have as much contact until your 'girlfriend' realises she is the one you love.
2006-12-12 20:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well... you have to show her that your ex means nothing to you and that all she is is your past and that she, your gf right now, is your present and maybe ur future.
Girls have this thing with ex-gfs...so its better yet, to stay low from ur ex's...
As for making ur gf love you again, she still loves you... she just dont trust you. And you know that you wouldn't want a relationship that has no trust and a gf that sniffs you or checks you if your still breathing?!!
Have a real conversation with her. Both of you swap what you really feel.
2006-12-12 20:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a brain half the size of a peanut, you could have answered this your self, Obviously she is jealous and doesn’t want you to talk to your ex, its true love she had for you.
What are you doing talking to your ex anyway, she is called an EX for a reason not unless you thinking of getting back with her. Take a RED ROSE & CHOCOLATE to your current girlfriend and apologise, TRUST ME YOU PROMISED A LEG OVER ;o)
2006-12-12 20:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-25 23:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can still talk to her, make sure she knows that you ex-girlfriend is your ex. The fact that you can still civilly talk with her (your ex) does not mean that care any less for the person who you are with now. Like you said, "I love her".
2006-12-12 20:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if this would work for you but it did to me my bf and i broke up and you know what he did he wore a cartoon charater costume more like a mascot and he sang a song which was really really sweet and next you have to stop being pals with your ex its not fair
2006-12-12 20:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by flannan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want her to love u again u need let go of your ex girl friend....If u love her u should do that! Who is more important to u or ex girl or your girl friend.
2006-12-12 20:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor image of a man. You can't make them love you. Quit being a sad sack and move on.
2006-12-12 20:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋