My friend (33 age )has been married 5 years back . His wife (32)had a falce pregancy 3 years back After that all in his house i.e his mother & wife are mentally disturbed . He is from typical middle class indian maharastrian Joint family.Both of them have done there cheak up for having a child .& both are normal .
Now the problem is his mother wants wife to get the treatment from the doctor ---- But his wife feel the treatment is mentally & physically touchering her (Doctors have ask her to take treatment & wait )
His wife wants to adope a child & then try for there owns ----- But his mother want them to first try if they can get there own child then go for adoption.( Astrologer have told them that adopting a child can get good luck & they can have a child of own later)
Due to this both are mentally upset.
His situation is which is a good decision to be taken 1 adoption then treatment ,2 treatment & then adoption or 3 some thing different
Please help..... him
2006-12-12 20:07:57 · 1 answers · asked by dilu 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
he has not to hurt any of them.
2006-12-12 20:26:21 · update #1
in her earlier pregnancy she blindly believe on astrologer who said that she should not get checkup done for her pergancy till 7 months & she carried her falce pregancy till 7 mounths & later sonography detected her falceness.
2006-12-12 20:38:15 · update #2
The mother-in-law should go to her room.
The wife wishes to adopt first. Good enough!
The husband should respect and listen to his wife. She holds the place of honor in the relationship. If the husband does not listen to his wife, he will have lost in a major way.
2006-12-12 20:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋