Morning all,
I cant seem to get my ex G/F out of my heads lately..!
we were together 4 years, she dumped me 4 months ago, we aint had any contact for 2 months or so, the first month was fine didn't think about really, but the last couple of weeks i just can seem to stop thinking about her..
Is it because i simply 'miss' her...?
Or just curious to see what shes up to..?
Im so confused ....!!!!
Please tell me if youve been in a similar situation..?
Ta
Ev's
Oh yea i asked this Q yesterday, SORRY !!!!!
2006-12-12 19:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are just missing someone, I'd pass on getting back with her. You sound like you have much to learn about women, and there is a huge variety of gals out there, don't waste anymore time wondering about her. Replace her with another who is more like you. Don't settle for less until you've had more experience, believe me, you won't regret it !
2006-12-12 19:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation. What your feeling or thinking right now are residual effects of emotions post relationship break up. Feelings are real and needs to be addressed with honesty and trust. The reason why you were fine for the first month perhaps because you accepted the reasons why you were dumped and you partially deserve it and that's why you did not fight for your love when she dumped you. Lately, you have been thinking about her because you still have feelings for her and that honestly, you still love her. You just don't have the courage to rescue the love you both shared for 4 years. However, if you decide to move on, I hope you will learn from this experience and you will find someone you could love better and be able to take care of it so won't get dumped again....
2006-12-13 03:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Todd N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell you why but I do know it hurts.
People do move in and out of our lives. It's a fact. Most people will be lost to us. your children are probably the only people you won't lose unless one day you are lucky enough to find one to love for a life time.
Doesn't happen often.
Move on.
If there is something in your life that is unfamiliar, making you feel insecure, unsettled, that's grating on you, upsetting - you may be feeling like seeking out the old, the comfortable , the familiar.
Don't. it'll pass.
Hang in there kid. We all have been there. Someone else is waiting to break your heart. Or maybe not. But she's out there. Waiting. Go find her. Love again.
2006-12-13 03:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distract yourself. You guys obviously broke it off for a reason. After four years it is hard to break the habit. Get a hobby or a few new girlfriends. Don't look back you'll regret the wasted time and the waste of time ahead if you continue living in the habitual nature of a past relationship.
2006-12-13 03:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by marathonlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is a long time to be with someone, the holidays are here and that makes you think even more about your ex, i have been separated from my husband for 7 years and every holiday it just get worse, your young get out there shop around for someone new, don't let this drag you down, if you really really want to see what she is up to give her a friendly call, but your best bet is to move on Hun find miss right shes out there waiting.......best of luck and happy holidays
2006-12-13 03:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all of the above my friend...ur only passing through the usual (and normal) post-breakup phases..u've been wth this person for too long and it's only natural that u'd still have all sorts of nostalgic feelings for that relationship...i mean we lose a pet and we dont get over it for a while...it's ok to miss her, it's ok to be curious wats wth her...but these feelings will only last a while..and then u'll find urself movin on and barely remebering her..just give it time
2006-12-13 03:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People want what they dont have, and you probably miss her since she dumped you, not the other way around. Obviously you werent done with her but she was over and done with you. Maybe talk to her about this.
2006-12-13 04:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definately get over it...
but its going to take a lot of time for some people...
its been 3 years and i cant forget my GF...
I'l pray for you bro....
God bless you
2006-12-13 03:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, It just hasn't been enough time passed...That's all. Once you find a new girl, WHAM!! Problem solved!! Honest!!
2006-12-13 03:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, alcohol helps you forget things
2006-12-13 03:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋