i met a man and we had talked on the phone about week. so one day, he asked to meet me for lunch, we met at a local applebees and just kicking it and we were talking about our kids and he asked me was i still with my sons father i said no if i was i would not be out with you so we were talking about one thing to the next and he just casually says i am married "yeah" 11 years needless to say his number is automatically deleted and he wont get anymore call backs but why wait till you get me out and then lay that one on me i think we had enough conversations before we went out he should have mentioned that whats up with that
2006-12-12 19:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a lot to be said for timing. He figured that if he would have told you the news over the phone, then you'd never have agreed to continue talking or meet with him. He had hoped by then, he had worked his magic on you. Needless to say, you weren't looking for an affair with a married man, so his evil plot failed.
If he tries to talk with you again, you might mention that if he continues, you might feel tempted to inform his wife...that should dissuade him.
2006-12-12 19:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you may like him now,you will end up getting one of these excuses.
1.We don't love eachother anymore,it's for the sake of the kids.
2.She has'nt had sex with me in years.
3.She is very materialistic.
4.I'm waiting until the kids are all out of the house in cllege before I divorce her.
5.Your different than any other woman I've ever met.I feel we have a connection.
6.I've never done this before.
Good luck,and tell him I said "hello."
Yours Truly,
The Wife and Kids
2006-12-12 19:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should have been honest with you right from the start, but I guess he wanted to suss you out first. Sounds like he's not worth even thinking about, so we've wasted enough time already even talking about such a loser. Move on - you can do so much better.
2006-12-12 19:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His intention was cheating on his wife, which is in a sense what he did just by calling you and taking you out for lunch. he was probably hoping you would like him enough to continue to see him. what a scumbag. I'm so glad you deleted his number. My opinion is "once a cheater, always a cheater".
2006-12-12 19:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may have been trying to see if you would still be cool with seeing him, as some women will see a married man. He was also, trying to play around & wanted to if you'd be game.....
2006-12-12 19:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn (AzCrazyGirl) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that disgusting? I hope you said something to him? I guess he was taking a chance to see if your morals sucked or not! Glad to hear your a good decent human being!! If more females were like us, many the divorce rate wouldn't be so bad!!! Merry Christmas to ya!!
2006-12-12 19:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he thought you where a cheater like
he is. You fooled his dumb behind.
Too bad there aren't more women with your morals
around to kick these losers to the curve.
Be proud. I feel sorry for his wife.
2006-12-12 19:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He hoped it wouldn't matter by then.
You were right to delete his number honey. One thing to do when we find we have dug ourselves into a litte hole is to stop digging.
Good job.
2006-12-12 19:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by outdone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he definitley put a stumbling block in front of you. Good for you for not tripping over it.
2006-12-12 19:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by lefty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thanx for doing that.
2006-12-12 19:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋