Why is Life so hard?

Question

Whne all you want to do is cry and cut? when your life is so messed up you Just can't stand the pain any longer

Answer 1

My friend, someone does care about you. I have seen several answers that show they care. I care!

I work with those who have been abused and many have felt that no one cared or could care about them only to find out that someone does.

I have also noticed that often when someone thinks no one cares, they will do things to push anyone that does care away. My friend, you will not push me away. I have had phone calls in the middle of the night cussing me out and I listened. I told them I was still there and I was not going anywhere. Within a shot time, they met my friend....He is the Prince of Peace and they found the peace they were looking for

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Answer 2

Life isn't hard.
It really isn't.
The one and only way to make it difficult is to not live yours. How often do you try to live someone else's version of your life? We are social creatures--most times we do things for approval rather than fulfillment. I'm guessing that your pain is not physical, it's emotional. Disappointment, maybe? Cut the ties that have bound you. If you are miserable in the life you know, by changing it the only bad outcome is being miserable in the new one you choose. Familiar territory, but new perception. And it is that new perception that makes all the difference. Then you learn to choose better when you realize that you are part of the cause. And the best part is that you probably don't even have to leave where you are, physically. You just have to change where you are mentally. I'ts a bitter pill to swallow, and so very few want to. It's called Being Accountable. Every miserably sad person I've met, and I speak from personal experience, has not accepted their part in their drama. It's been called the Victim Stance. Oddly enough, it's a very powerful position to be in. When you turn that power for you rather than against you, it all changes. It seems deceptively simple. But it's really just plain simple. And when you find yourself not being accountable mentally, just remember it's you, not them.
Trust yourself.

Answer 3

Why is life hard? Using myself as guinea pig, I'd say that my life is hardest when my imagination, how I see the world and who I am as a part of it, clashes against what I want the world to be, and who I want to be as a part of it. Put a little cleaner:

If you see the world as a generally good place, and yourself as a generally good person, and something goes wrong near you, you have a desire that comes from your very nature that tells you to do your part to right the wrong.

However, if you see the world as a bad place and yourself as a good person, and something goes wrong near you, you may "try and try and try" to help fix it, but there's always that deep feeling of "why bother? It's like trying to wash a mud-wrestling pit."

You ever notice people in the hood? You ever notice people in Yuppietown? If you watch them both carefully, they both work hard. There are a lot of hard-working folks in both places. But one group seems to soar, while the other seems to just go around in a circle faster.

Happiness and ease seem to come down to:
1. Having a goal that's worth reaching for.
2. Striving for that goal, dodging the temptations that would detract from that goal.
3. Understanding that setbacks happen, but that difficulty is just the hammer pounding and forging the hot steel of your ultimate success. The more difficulties, the sharper you become.

It's 3 am where I am, but I hope that all came out understandable. I often find myself less happy when I'm tired. So sleep a little.

Answer 4

Yes, I've felt like that before, but I never cut myself...I don't like the sight of blood, and it's not a good idea to cut yourself...if you're feeling like that right now, you should talk to someone about it, and realize that things happen to us so we can learn from them and to be an example for others who are going through the same thing.

You can also try to get out more and do more things that make you feel better about yourself-like join an art class, volunteer at the local orphanage, things like that. There are people out there who need you even if it does not feel like it right now.

Good luck and I hope things get better!

Answer 5

First we Gotta learn what is Life and what is the Object of Life.
TO reach the final destination of Life (DEATH) in such a anner that GOD (ALLAH) Almighty is pleased with ya.

Conditions of Life is directly Proporianate to The individuals actions during his life.

Our desires and wishes should becum subjected to the dictates of GOD (ALLAH ) Almighty FULLY as Shown to us by his Beloved Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him). THe result would be a PURE and Chaste Life However if we transgress even though to us it seems as though we are not doing anything wrong then the outcome would be A STRAIGHT AND NARROW LIFE.

Continously ask and pray for Guidance and EASE...

Answer 6

I know life is tough, and sad to say, it will not get easier. But I am willing to bet that someone does care about you. I'm glad you have come to this website. You must care about yourself a little bit to reach out to others for answers. Please don't give up in life, there is so much to live for, you just have to open your arms and eyes. Take care of yourself.

Answer 7

comsolation has to come from within seek refuge in noble and divine activitiies recovery may be coming soon

Answer 8

Sorry kid my life is fine. I love my life. What's the problem? Maybe I can help. Email me we will talk if you like. xx

Answer 9

because when u think for only for self, then life is hard. If you think for other then life is enjoy......... Hahahahahhaha. So always think +ve and think for others and then think... about "LIFE"

Answer 10

That's why we have God to lean on so that we are not going to do stupid things.. May God bless you.