is she a lesbien or not?

Question

my ex girlfriend cant make up her mind we go out then she says "i am not like this i am not a lesbien" what does this mean?

Answer 1

sounds like she is confused. she might just be experimenting, "trying it out". or maybe she is kinda in denial about being a lesbian. or she could be bisexual. this is something she is gonna have to figure out before you try to have a relationship with her. give her time, this is probably hard for her. of course this is all spectuation, im not a lesbian, so i dont know how it is first hand.

Answer 2

maybe she is in denial when she goes out in public.