Yea lately we been havin problems gettin him out the house!! 2 do somethin. Were at a point where we've done everything and everything is boring or sux!! is somethin wrong with us were both 19 soo we need some ideas 2 spice this back up. He's in the military and he got home 2 weeks ago and seems like he's just bored and lazy with everything. Like right now were suppose 2 go do somethin and he's givin me the tired conversation on the phone and i'm like hell no ur comin 2 get me and were goin out!! anyways a lil advice anybody else got this prob take care muah :-)
2006-12-12 18:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I 4got 2 add a major detail he feels the need 2 get high all the time. He's really been messin up big time right now :-(
2006-12-12 18:36:28 · update #1
Maybe he really is bored with everything there, I get like that. When you know the town SOOO much that there is just nothing new, it does get old. Try going on a short road trip, or out of town to a club, someplace new.
Lilly, a boo is the same as saying "my man" or "boyfriend" or "my love" or "the love of my life" (I am sure you knew that and are just being ignorant though)
2006-12-12 18:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really tired you're not making things any matter by naggin' and getting him frustrated. I know you're pissed he's not paying any attention to you. But all he wants now is to sit at home and relax before he's up for the military again. get some hot choco and visit him. Sit down on the coach and watch dvds(which you urself will have to rent since he's in no mood to do so.) together. Have a sweet evening. And try to meet his needs. He might be having some problems in life and is not ready to tell you. If he doesn't like the idea, leave him alone. Guys like it when you don't nag too much and always meet their needs. So keep it cool.
2006-12-13 02:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by eTerNal_sAnDwIcH92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your 'boo' is your husband or boyfriend. When I got out of the military the shock of civilian life was actually traumatic, and I served during the Nam war but I never served there. In some ways the military makes you lazy because they do most everything for you, when you get out you have to used to doing things for yourself, trust me, this happens to a lot of
ex-gi's. Your situation is a little different since he's not out yet but is really on leave. It took me awhile to get off my *** and get a job. All I can say is give him some time and do things he wants to do for now, whatever that may be. Good luck.
2006-12-13 02:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by melowd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in the military... did he just get back from a tour in Iraq or Afghanistan? If so, he may be suffering from depression from everything he's had to deal with. Give the man a break. Just because you're all excited to go out doesn't mean he's ready to do that, and if you insist on dragging him along, it won't be too long before you're looking for a new boyfriend because this one dumped you.
2006-12-13 02:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's tired, or depressed... Take him out for dinner, or to see a movie, or go go karting, or something like that... or bring round pizza & beer & dvds to his house, & stay in and have a romatic night.. of err beer & pizza... Maybe hed prefer to do something that means he can stay in, because he's been away for so long.
2006-12-13 02:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always bribe "boo" with beer as an incentive...:) Always works for me... She can even manage to drag me to church, if there is beer involved in the conversation...:)
2006-12-13 02:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by ronniejacob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him time
2006-12-13 02:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
booha hooha
2006-12-13 02:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by spanky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a boo?
2006-12-13 02:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋