my dad married this lady about 6 months ago and she has a daughter about my age that lives with her dad most of the time but on our last week of summer vaction we were all together for about 10 days and we kind of fooled around in the pool a little and now I have a girlfriend at school and now she is calling me and saying how GREAT x-mas is going to be ,I have told my MOM and pastor both and they say tell my dad and stepmom but that will ruin christmas and dad is real happy now but this girl is relly hot -please help
2006-12-12 18:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by badmts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
keep it up your living the dream
2006-12-12 18:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really not a good idea, for basically the same reason that office romances are not a good idea. If the relationship ends you will both feel uncomfortable but will have a hard time avoiding each other because of your family connection. If the relationship goes sour and it's a bad breakup your dad and stepmother could be hurt also. A lot of potential for bad things here. You should both move on.
2006-12-12 18:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a problem in your mind then how you handle it is all up to you. You need to call her, explain it was nice when you two were having fun, but xmas is coming and you need to stay separated for the visit. Get a grip on youself and your hormones, you are not the first to do this----make your position clear with her and stick to it. If people find out---so what---you made a mistake---get past it. Merry xmas
2006-12-12 18:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it is your stepsister really worth hurting your dad over . It can hurt your dads relationship and you would have to live it for the rest of your life. In my opinion family comes first.
2006-12-12 18:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's off limits buddy anytime you have step siblings they are off limits.. there are so many people out there you don't have to keep in all in the family you can branch it out ....i realize not blood related however if your dad plans on staying married forever then she will always be your stepsister...so keep it that way..tell her hey this x-mas thing can't happen cuz you had time to think about it and it would be wrong...
2006-12-12 18:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Carol J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say squash that right now. Thats a weird situation and I doubt you want to deal with anythign that may come from that relationship. I say tell her it was fun and you liek her but you just cant do it.
2006-12-12 18:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones (and bad judgment) can lead to hurt feelings, anger, pregnancy, etc.
Do you really want to cross that line knowing you cannot take back your actions?
Think with your cranium and not the other head.
2006-12-12 18:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by ☺ . CIEL . ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens... but problem is, if it doesnt work out, can you both just be friends? your gonna have to see eachother at family events, holidays, etc.
think long and hard before you let your lust loose.
2006-12-12 18:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
2006-12-12 18:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋