I just got cought for cheating on my girlriend and she broke up with me I ****** UP and it was in the past my feeling changed for her and since i cheated and i relized how much i love her but she found out about it she told me to show her that i love her and im sorry threw actions not words what do you think i should do? She comes back from college on thurs and i need advise. i can get her to meet me but what should i do?
2006-12-12 18:08:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't figure out what actions would show her you've changed - then you haven't changed. You need a little more time and suffering....
Know this. She must still care to even let you try to win her back.
2006-12-12 18:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dedicate yourself to her, and spend every day being as honest, upstanding and good as you can possibly be... and she's still not going to trust you. The damage you did by cheating is something she may never get completely over. That's just a fact of life. If she loves you enough, she may be willing to keep you around, but in the back of her mind she will always wonder. Five years down the road, she will still be wondering when you're going to cheat again, or if you have and she just doesn't know it for sure yet.
There is no clear path for this one. Good luck.
2006-12-12 18:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever push this issue with her. You broke the one thing that can not be repaired. TRUST. Since you are still at the mind frame to think with Mr. Happy, Buy some Tidy Whitties and everytime that little bastard pokes his head up - smack him back down - I mean litterally smack him back down.
If you truly love her, you will do what ever it takes. If it is ment to be, she will find it in her heart (eventually) to forgive. But, don't you ever mistake that for forget!
It sounds to me like both of you are young. This may resolve right away, or this may be the one you kick yourself for the rest of time for screwing up. Sad to say, but this is proof that 1 penis means 1 brain cell. I don't want to be a male basher, but you men just make it too easy not to.
Quit thinking with that little mole in your shorts, come to grips with your heart and let that lead you instead of Mr. Spanky!
2006-12-12 18:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by shelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her and this isn't just a now that Ive lost her i want her thing then you need to make yourself vulnerable to her. Risk all of yourself and show her that your willing to give yourself to her completely.
But make sure you really do love her. Why did you cheat in the first place?
2006-12-12 18:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her once, say you're deeply sorry, maybe buy her something and if she accepts you, then great, otherwise leave it at that. If she isn't interested then leave it at that. If you honestly care about her then you'd be able to see why she has no interest in you anymore and will be kind enough not to bother her anymore.
2006-12-12 18:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same happened with me...
my one sits on his knees with rose in his hand n asked will u marry me"
N this showed how much he loves me...i trusted him...hope will work for you also
2006-12-12 18:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋