We shared a very sweet relation.We both loved each other so much n he used to be extremely caring n emothional. But since the day he introduced me to his 3 close friends,he started saying he cant marry me became rude to me.but before tht he told me tht his friends told him tht im extremely beautiful. Their gf's r not gudluking. And my bf is very jealous types n 6months back he saw me dancing with a handsom guy. After tht he never talked to me on ph but sent abusive n disrespectful mesgs. He never used to like my talking to any boy.last month i got a mesg tht im a cheap gurl n im frustrated thts y i go after guys. He asked me tht i had gone on date with whom n i kept silent coz i had fever tht day n was at home. I never contacted him all these months but replied few mesgs. This time i didnt reply even n he mesgd tht he feels like slaping n abusing me coz im so cheap. On15nov 2 mesgs were sent bychance to him n he sent a mesg tht i shud b careful otherwise he will break my hands.
2006-12-12 18:01:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
on 2nd dec i got 2 mesgs. i was going in alone in my car n i got a mesg tht where was i going with my bf? then i got a forward mesg-" i may be silent but tht doesnt mean im dead. deep in my heart i remember n care for u. after tht no mesg till today. NOW I WANA ASK, HAS HE GIVEN A SWEET END TO EVERYTHING OR HE WILL CONTACT SOM DAY MAY BE HIS OUTGOING IS BARRED ??MY BIRHTDAY IS NEAR. WILL HE WISH ME??? OR I WILL CRY ON MY BIRHTDAY COZ I LOVE HIM N CANT BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIS WISHES
2006-12-12 18:02:05 · update #1
You need to dump his @ss. He's disrespectful and it's obvious that both of you have a TON of growing to do. Jealous guys are trouble with a capital T.
Dump him now, before he does something stupid.
2006-12-12 18:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and I sympathize with you. It is not easy to mend a broken heart and ahrder still to move on. You fell in love with a guy and coz of his jealous rages you drifted apart. **** happens. Even to the best of people. Even to the best relationships.
Now,what I am worried about is his violent messages. The man you love or loved has violent tendencies and that is a BIG DEAL. I understand you loving him and caring for him and all but,my girl,it is scary to think that when the going gets rough your BF will rough you up.
Think of it this way. You were a princess and your prince was turned into a frog,now you have to wait for a long time for him to come back. Now it is time for you to move on and see what the world has to offer. You are not cheap! If you date out other guys when you are single then you are defintely not a tramp. He may think otherwise coz he is a loser and cannot fight for his love but still he is a loser. He cannot go around accusing you and telling you he is going to hurt you.
Move on.cry a bucket,cry a river create a waterfall but think hard of going back to him. You are a sweet girl and you desrve to find your real prince and you are not cheap if you try.
Now if you are hard headed like most girls then go back to him but learn martial arts coz he will definitely HURT you,the signs are all written on your wall.
Happy birthday! Chief! LOL
2006-12-12 18:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder how long you dated.. maybe not long enough to see that even though he was sweet at first and loving he changed..if he loved you his feelings wouln't have changed. He has no right to threaten you , he has no right to watch you..he doesn't even call you now just leaves messages...if he can go so long without talking to you ro being loving to you then where did the love go? maybe to another girl..but he sounds like he has some problems..and if he can say bad things to you and you still want him and want to forgive then he will see that weakness and one day you will be wishing you had let him go now..before he does break your hands or worse.. if he loves you he will trust you even if you are dancing with a gorgeous guy he should be proud to have a beautiful woman that any guy would die for.. you better go on living your life and the next time he leaves you messages that he is watching you ..call the non emergency police and let them know to drive by because he doesn't belong there ....he stopped talking to you keep it that way and change your number if it continues..
2006-12-12 18:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Carol J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as nice looking as his firends think then you do not need an abusive boyfriend because it will only get wose with time. have s good cry now and find yourself a good man not a abuser. Good Luck little lady
2006-12-12 18:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by sickand tired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. He sounds unstable and manipulative.
2006-12-12 18:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by mara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe you should give him time and space and move on to someone not abusive. It's not healthy for you.
2006-12-12 18:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice that you will be able to handle the consequences of your choice.
2006-12-12 18:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get counseling and a order of protection
2006-12-12 18:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is no good. Grow up. You should make new friends. Move on.
2006-12-12 18:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow it sounds like hes really jealous i would be scared it my bf did that but then again i would try to kill him my self
2006-12-12 18:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋