2006-12-12 17:27:33 · 5 answers · asked by chica™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say if your going to let that happen you have set your limits and stick to them. If you let someone run you they well. Let him know the way you feel. It's a club we all know what happens there.So make sure you think hard about it. You don't want it to backfire in your face.
2006-12-12 17:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF my guy was into this sort of thing, then I would. He needs his alone time with friends just like we do. And I wouldn't 'let' or 'allow' him as he is NOT my property to decide what he does or where he goes at all times. I do NOT own him, and he doesn't own me either.
Since my fiance isn't into clubbing with the guys, he does have a huge hobby of collecting, selling, and repairing model trains. He belongs ot a train club (which I go with him there once a month for their potluck) and he goes there at least once a week to be with other club members, etc. He does go and see friends of his that also collect trains, and other friends, without me. I have NO problem with this. I am not jealous of him doing this at all. First off he has a phone so I can call him if I need to. Second, I trust him implicitly. Third, jealously will get me, him, or us no where, and will only break up the relationship. So, why get jealous over him 'going out with the guys'? It isn't worth it! We go out with the girls to malls, clubbing, etc for some 'girl time,' so why can't the guys do the same thing?!! It's a male bonding thing, just like shopping with friends is a female bonding thing.
2006-12-13 01:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey are you a person that keeps her man down at home on a chain? Look a guy has to get out at times so that he could feel as though he has a bit of freedom but you sometimes have to yank on his chain a little to remind him. If you think that keeping a man at home would keep him from doing things that you don't want him to do then you have another thing coming...
Look your man is on a chain but sometimes you have to give it a little length. Let him know what is what. Which is what you attolerate and what you don't in the beginning he would know if he os ready or not. So if I would send my man out to hang with the guys with out me being present? Yes because he knows exactly what I would stand and how much people that knows and how much I hear.
2006-12-13 01:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only to the sports bar.
2006-12-13 01:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..coz i dont like clubbing n i wont deprive him of all the fun....trust is important in relationships
2006-12-13 01:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋