We use to go out heaps....to movies, lunches...once had dinner, and also the coffee after work etc....we use to always laugh etc...she also use to touch me alot,all this was gone for awhile, and she started opening up to me again lately, and im happy bout this.She got out of a relationship about 3 weeks ago.....but we use to hang before that aswell....but afterwards, we hung out more...she use to say things like "im going to get a real hot girlfriend"...and used to ask "what type of girl i'd liked"....i didnt want to make the move cause i didnt want to become the rebound, and she got annoyed i think and stop txtn, and lessen conversation for awhile....shes back to normal now. We had a good chat...and she said that her mates have all come clean and said that they actually like her!....theres like 4 of them....and i asked if she liked any of them....she said i dont know?.....is she telling me to ask her already>????,.........i dont wnna lose out on her..whats should i do for know...
2006-12-12 17:19:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will girls just stop talking to you if they like you?and also i noticed shes quite different when im around her....shes quieter now.
one thing i forgot to mention......she always used to do the work....she made me come to movies/lunches/dinner etc....and she was always asking me to go see her at work etc....i reallyy do think she got mad at me for not asking her....what can i do to see if she really likes me next time im around her??
2006-12-12 17:20:02 · update #1
Sounds like a lot of beating around the bush.
Get some flowers and take them to her.
Tell her you need to know if you two are just friends or could you be sweethearts. She might not be sure herself and the flowers will tell her she has to decide. If she is not interested in being your sweety, she will say so and you can stop guessing and get back to being best friends.....
2006-12-12 17:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight...
You have a friend that's a girl in which you like and want more than friendship with her.
She's hanging out with you all the time and you're both having a good time.
She is always asking you on dates to the movies and etc.
She is always asking you to come see her at work.
She's asked you what kind of girlfriend (which I don't get - unless she's wanting a male and female or you're a female - I dunno) she should get because she's letting you know she's out there looking...
and you don't know if she likes you?
Hmmm.
2006-12-13 01:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Monopolized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to step up to the plate relationships are 50/50.being as you admit she would do everything probably made her unsure if you feel the same way about her,she withdrew a little in order to see if you would purse the realtion more,so if you want her plan events or outings so that she can see that she doesnt always have to do everything and sshe will also know that you are indeed interested
2006-12-13 01:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by brianlr2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out! tell her you want to see a movie and she should go with you. go for lunch or dinner beforehand. act normal, as if you're just being her friend, but have it be the two of you and look good and smell good and pay for her and compliment her, and make her realize that you're sweatin' her.
just imagine yourself as her man... start feeling that way around her and maybe it'll come true!
2006-12-13 01:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Zaaba44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes you since that's what you want to khow. And see what happens.
2006-12-13 01:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry question too long, dont have a spare hour and a half.
2006-12-13 01:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋