is alcohol needed for kissing?

Question

i cant get loose enough in front of a guy to just kiss him.
and i feel like the only way i can, is if im drunk.
but i kind of want to remember the kiss specially.

any tips of kissing?
best ways to do it?

Answer 1

Alcohol is NOT needed for kissing. It may be something you want to use as an excuse if the kissing is bad (or you realize the person being kissed is not into it), but few things will stand out in someone's memory (except yours) as the time they got smooched by so-and-so when they were drunk as a skunk.

You'd also be well-warned to not begin an association of alcohol and romance, however well intentioned it may be in your goal of kissing that special someone. There are other ways to feel romantic that don't require breathalyzer tests later.

Since you seem to be worrying about being 'loose' enough in front of a guy just to kiss him -- I'm thinking it's either A) Lack of kissing experience or B) General kissing anxiety. Guess what? We've all been there!

Here's my own little primer to kissing:

1) Body contact - people who are not interested in kissing don't tend to be touching by hand, elbows, knees, or anywhere else. If you aren't doing some of the following with a guy/girl, kissing is probably not on their mind, either: Holding hands, arm-in-arm, hugging, sitting/walking close and playing with each others fingers, tracing lines on his/her face/hand/knee, or generally in the 'personal zone' (less than 2 feet away) from someone.

2) Eye-contact -- "The eyes have it--" they say, and when it comes to kissing, they're right: Pupils dilate between individuals who are sexually attracted to one another. This doesn't mean taking a flashlight and a ruler and trying to casually measure pupil circumfrence while breathing sweet nothings into his/her ear...just realize that if they like looking into (and holding) your eyes while talking or spending time with you, chances are they already find you attractive.

3) There are no born super-kissers: If there is any human being who hasn't bumped noses, missed the mouth, knocked teeth, or other similar circumstance when they first started kissing, ask THEM to post on Yahoo Answers. I'd be surprised if you have any takers. Good kissing is like good food -- it takes time to prepare, you can't skip any steps, and it's more memorable if it's not the daily special:

Preparing: Do you feel good about you? How you look? What your breath smells like? How about your teeth? If any of those questions are in your mind while you look at the guy/gal you want to kiss, your kiss may not have the 'interest' you mean to express. If the person you are with makes you feel comfortable, then kissing (and being kissed) is also a pleasure rather than an anxiety.

Steps: 1) Relationship (You know him/her? Been to similar events/activities/groups? Had any one-on-one time (driving in the same car, walking to the same place, having a meal together)? 2) Mood -- (Check for the eye contact, other body contact, his/her voice (may be lower or higher depending on level of excitement) 3) Timing and Location -- In Sunday School? NOT!

Hope it helps!

Answer 2

Alcohol and romance are a bad mix - alcohol and sex and not remembering who got you pregnant... works great for that.

Basic tip - just do it... if you're really nervous about it, pick a friend you are really close to as a friend only and ask if they'd help you practice... sounds weird, but if you do it just once or twice it will make you much less nervous when you're with that guy you like.

As far as tips go - slobbery is bad. Dry puckered is bad. Just relax you lips, hold them gently together and press. From there it all just happens.

Best ways to do it... there is no best way. Every kiss is unique. If you kiss the same person a lot, you eventually develop a style unique to the two of you. And you both learn things about yourselves as well as each other as far as kissing.

But really. Give it a try sober, no alcohol, no drugs. I know how uncomfortable it is, but its also very exciting, especially if its with someone new...

Have fun.

-dh

Answer 3

The kiss has to be done in such a way that at the beginning and the end of it there is a promise of this is just the beginning. It is not easy to start but do it front to front drape all you have along his body and place your lips which you have moistened on his and press your lips firmly on his then the draped body which for some reason will start to flutter against his body will get these strange sensations along the lines of tell me more.Quick give me another drink will yuh

Answer 4

With kissing, you just kind of have to go with it. Try not to focus on whether or not ur good...just enjoy it and make it real! Also, maybe if you can't loosen up enough to kiss a guy than ur not ready to. Be patient and don't rush yourself. Relationships can be wonderful...

Answer 5

various fatwas (non secular criminal rulings) were issued on the challenge of tobacco and Islam. till those days there replaced into no actual consensus on what Islam reported about smoking, as there isn't any longer a Qur'anic verse which states that it truly is somewhat incorrect to smoke a cigarette. even with the undeniable fact that given the very public findings into the wellbeing effects of smoking, there is now a commonly used consensus that it truly is haraam (forbidden) for a Muslim to smoke. it truly is often the concept doing such harm to a body given to you by Allah is a sin in a roundabout way. As for alcohol, there is sparkling Qur'anic rulings in this. Intoxicants were forbidden contained in the Qur'an by various separate verses printed at different circumstances over a era of years. in the initiating, it replaced into forbidden for Muslims to attend to prayers at the same time as intoxicated (4:40 3). Then a later verse replaced into printed which reported that alcohol incorporates some good and some evil, even with the undeniable fact that the evil is larger than the best (2:219). This replaced into the subsequent step in turning human beings faraway from intake of it. finally, "intoxicants and video games of possibility" were noted as "abominations of devil's handiwork," meant to exhibit human beings faraway from God and ignore about prayer, and Muslims were ordered to abstain (5:ninety-91). (note - the Qur'an isn't prepared chronologically, so later verses of the e book were no longer unavoidably printed after previously verses.) both are seen sinful, yet those Muslims who do smoke are frequently inspired to provide up in the course of the era of Ramadaan, or to apply the money spent on cigarettes as da'wa (a donation to charity).

Answer 6

Everyone is "loose" when they drink... I know I am... and yeah, Im the same way, I get horny (haha) when I drink too.... but if the only time your kissing someone is when your drunk, then you probably dont actually feel the right attraction to him and probably feel the physical attraction (wanting to touch him, etc).... So, no alcohol is not necessarily needed for kissing...

Answer 7

Perhaps you aren't in serious enough relationship, if you are having insecurities about kissing. Don't go around kissing strangers thre might be a possibility for you to catch an STD.

Answer 8

Beg yours? What sort of a question is that? No, you don't need to be drunk to kiss a guy if he turns you on. Just make sure you like him first before you kiss him. And if you like him and vice versa then you will definitely loosen up because his kiss will bring you to your knees (sometimes literally, lol).

Answer 9

trust me...drinking is the worst way to go
you'll feel like you're kissing really great
when your kissing kinda sucks.
just try to loosen up and relax yourself
the best way to kiss is make sure you like the person and they like you back and then close your eyes and kiss.

Answer 10

Pretend to be drunk. Then you'll remember, but have an excuse if it doesn't work out!

I have no kissing tips. It just seems to work.