Pl do help help help me..frank suggestions..?
i have been in love with a person since 4yrs and we used to be very loving..
but then he started to take "over care"(thts wht he says)on me and even till today never allows me to meet friends or even talk on phone to others.he says u ll be mislead..!
all thse yrs,i got used to it,but once i promised him i will be the girl as u wish to be..unable to see his sadness...may be i thought i could come down a bit..
since then we didnt hav any prob,though i could feeel the decreasing love..
now,at present,he still more decreased the ways of showing love...
he feels i dont love him enough..
there is no more passion and love as it was before..i did really love to have it all over again..by my man doesnt seem to understand and each time i say so,he keeps reducing love.
pl give me some tips..i m really getting depressed..Pl tell me HOW DO I MAKE HIM FEEL MY LOVE?we stay far from each other..only phone..
NO MEAN COMMENTS PL..
2006-12-12 16:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by For peace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually the first quarrel started when he came to know i spoke to my friends brother..i accepted it and said..i just said hello and we r just friendly..he says,u urself spoiled the relatioship..
i m even in the engineeering college he wanted me to join in..
is nt there any way of making him feel ok??if not..i have no other choice..
2006-12-12 16:49:01 · update #1
To be honest with you, this is critical condition!
The way I understand your question, you really show your lover more than love. You can love someone regardless what he is or when you met with him, that's not a mistake. But the biggest mistake is to love someone "exceedingly".
What I would do is;- I would still show him love as usual, but then again I would show him that I can still live with out him. This way I'm sure he will come back to you and you can keep your love save. But remember that, Don't you ever leave or stop what your life likes, enjoys or feel happy about it, because your lover doesn't like it. Even if you do, show him how bad you felt about it.
2006-12-12 17:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by sakaria h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound like a healthy relationship. He won't let you see your friends or talk to them over the phone!? That's not right. When my ex-husband did that I accepted it, now that he's gone I've realized how abusive he was. Maybe you should take a long look at your relationship and make sure it's even worth saving. Think of yourself, do you really want to live the rest of your life like that?
2006-12-13 00:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by kameka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh man! I would hate to be reading this and find out it's written by my girl. That would suck. I dont know what you do to rekindle love. I havn't got to that point yet. It's still burning hot for me. how old are you guys?
2006-12-13 00:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like ur relationship is very unhealthy to start with. whats up with him not letting u talk to ur friends and stuff? that's just idiotic. i would step back and look at ur relationship with this man and see if its really worth u working at it.
2006-12-13 00:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell out of town! sounds like a control freak! sorry but not worth saving!
2006-12-13 01:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by m g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. hes controlling. that is not a real relationship. that is not what love is
2006-12-13 00:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋