i have never orgasmed from sex... i have only had sex with my boyfriend, is it him or me? i feel resentful, but i dont know if i just cant during sex. i have from oral and stuff like that though, so i have no idea? he always feels bad, but he doesnt seem to know or try to fix it. advice?
2006-12-12 16:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its completely normal.
Most girls (more than 65%) cannot orgasm from just sex.
Just guide him and show him what you like.
He'll like that you're taking control.
2006-12-12 16:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "orgasm from oral, and stuff like that", he should "fix " it that way. You orgasm, then he orgasms, and everyone is happy.
If you don't like that answer, TELL him what you want him to do: Go slower, faster, change positions, more foreplay. What is happening that YOU are not enjoying sex enough. Maybe he does not last long enough.
2006-12-12 16:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Supercell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try playing with your clit while he's having sex with you or ask him to do it. If he's honestly interested in getting you to orgasm, he'll do what's necessary to make it so. Try different positions, different tempos, and what have you.
2006-12-12 16:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with yourself a few times and if you have one
then it's him. If you don't then it's you.
Have fun
2006-12-12 16:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not him. its said that some women don't orgasm from straight penetration.
2006-12-12 16:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what u want
2006-12-12 17:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aha
2006-12-12 16:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know..
2006-12-12 16:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋