for women:How do you get that click on a date wht do you find that helps you feel connected to a guy?

Question

I've been dating quite a bit and we allways have a good time, and have lots of fun but we always end up breaking up after 4-5 dates because of no click on both her part which then rebounds to no click from me. How do I find my click. I just started dating this girl and I really like her a lot and don't want to screw it up again? thanx

Answer 1

The thing is theres people who u just can click with and not..
Theres that kind of girls that do..just u need to find out which..

But if ur trying to improve and get that girl u want...this is my advice:

The best secret is humour - jokes
(not those lame stupid jokes:but sometimes it works though :))

If u face problems clicking, why not go for activities that dont require u to go through all those formal get to know crap...

Girls like surprises, likes excitement..take her to a funfair (even those lame ones n play games),play paintball..u know..to break the ice.. If u find urself hard to click, u need to avoid the first few dates of talking..
Maybe thats why ur chasing them away..after the 3rd date and so on..u ran out of things to talk of..

If ur with an upbeat social girl, then maybe its fine..but even they would run for cover if its all talk n no fun..

So...be natural and go out with someone coz u want to..thats the biggest key..

Goodluck man

Answer 2

What do women really want?
Instructions
•STEP 1: Ask her about herself, her ambitions, her life. Be interested. It's a rare woman who wants to sit around all night listening to a man talk about himself. And the more you try to impress her with your tales of adventure, the less impressed she'll be.
•STEP 2: Be presentable. Women are notorious accessorizers, and whether she'll admit it to you or not, you are an accessory. Other women will judge her on her choice. A clean, good-smelling man with well-fitting clothes is a real prize.
•STEP 3: Make eye contact. A lot. And smile - in a friendly way. Don't leer.
•STEP 4: Be a gentleman. It's a myth that chivalry is dead, right? There are just a few women out there messing it up for the rest of us who really do like to have doors held open for us.
•STEP 5: Learn to dance. Women will flock to you - all of them will be impressed.
•STEP 6: Be funny without being crude. It's an art.
•STEP 7: Compliment her. Notice her shoes or her watch - something that shows you're paying attention. We'll change our clothes six times before we leave the house; it's nice to find someone who appreciates the final choice.
•STEP 8: It's hard for a woman not to be impressed with a man who is impressed with her. If you really like her, tell her so. You don't have to make a big deal about it, just let her know you admire her.

Tips & Warnings
•Don't stare at her - or other women.
•Don't guide her around a room. The hand-on-the-elbow steering technique is very annoying. The hand-on-the-small-of-the-back technique is usually too intimate.

Answer 3

I dont think there is a way to make sure you click with someone. If you are yourself, and you dont click, then you dont click. If you are not yourself, and you click, then what is the point? You just have to keep trying. The right person for you is out there somewhere. Good luck. =]

Answer 4

Truth is , either you have chemistry or you dont! Most women know it at once but do not want to be impolite, so they let it go for awhile and then poof! there gone.Thats all ther is to it.There is a lady out there just for you, she is waiting for you to find her.In due time you will be together! Mewhile enjoy your life!

Answer 5

I hate to be unsupportive but I don't think there is anything you can do to increase the chances of a spark. It is either there or it isn't. It doesn't matter how perfect the other person is, if that spark isn't there is doesn't matter.