Help...I feel depressed?

Question

I don't know what's wrong with me. It hit me all of a sudden a couple hours ago. I feel worthless. I feel ugly, and like nobody cares about me. My dating life sucks. I'm not good looking enough to have a ton of guys after me. The one I like just wants to use me for sex. My ex still likes me but his personality gets on my nerves. All other guys either are just out for some easy sex with anyone, or something. My female friends don't seem that interested in me, not because I'm a downer or anything like right now, but I don't know maybe I'm not interesting or funny enough or something. I just feel like such a worthless loser. I'm sooo lonely but I don't feel worthy of anybody's interest. I'd call my parents but they are critical and judgmental of me and always busy. I just have nobody.

Answer 1

I'm with you on this one. I don't know which came first, depression or insomnia, one caused the other. Try to find a counselor you can talk to. I have an appointment for next week (wish it were sooner) My doctor recommended a few, but I found this one through my work employee assistance program. Just making the appointment has helped me greatly. My wife can't understand it, she just tells me to snap out of it or something (and she's the one with a bi-polar sister)
There is somebody out there for you, there are even free services in many areas.
Please don't underestimate your parents. I'm a dad and I would do ANYTHING for my kids! If it were necessary I would even die for them!

Answer 2

First, know that there is always someone there for you. You may not realize it now, but you will soon. If all else fails, turn to God.

Don't let yourself feel the way you do. No one deserves to feel like that. You just haven't found the right guy yet, and when you do, you're going to look back on this question and laugh. I don't know you, but you sound like a very special person. Special enough to move past this, and if you haven't felt like this much before, then you're strong enough to move past it as well. Don't worry about your ex, and don't worry about the current. If that's all he wants you for then he's not worth the time. It makes me sick that any guy could just want someone for sex. You're not worthless nor are you a loser. Your female friends can't be the best friends in the world if they won't take the time out to listen to what is bothering you. If you feel like you just need someone to talk to or someone to tell you a funny joke to lift your spirits, email me.

Answer 3

Try and take a seat someplace quiet together with her and inform her the way you believe approximately the quandary. Maybe she isn't mindful she is doing something or how it's affecting you. Hopefully this may occasionally repair the crisis. Otherwise if she denies it or she does not upgrade after that then although it can be elaborate you haven't any different option however to transport on. There are lots different fish within the sea and this one isn't valued at your concentration if she's going to be snubbing you and commonly striking out with different men rather of spending first-class time with you. There is a woman larger for you in the market.

Answer 4

get a grip, girl! there are so many many things to feel depressed about than to be depressed because you cant get guys to be crazy over you. guys, as you know, are just pass-time activities for us girls. we have so many things to concentrate on. guys are our only distractions. you should divert you attention on something else. perhaps, something a little more productive.
if i was a 30-year-old woman, that was what i would've said.

BUT, if i was a teenager or an out-going person, i would've said, "go clubbing, dear! drink. bump into a guy when you're pissed drunk. give him your number. he'll definitely call you back. the next day, appologise for your weird behavior. become friends. love will blossom!"

that's as easy as ABC! always remember, there isn't a single person on planet earth that is bad-looking or something like that. people see the person inside, not the physical appearance. this might seem like an old dialogue, but, it's true!

-when everything falls apart, be rest assured that life's gonna be so much fun!

Answer 5

This is only my opinion.
I think it sounds like you need to find one friend that you trust and go out and have some fun. I say this cause with that friend you can let loose. You can not feel better if you don't try to do something. Try sometime new, you can try something new and drunk if you want to. Just go out there and experience the world. Don't stay stuck you the one you think your in.
When my girlfriend left me, my friends took me out all the time. Weekday, weeknight, middle of the day or whatever. They took me out. I did so much and had so much fun I forgot about my sad little world. I think this applies here too.
Try lots and lots of new things you have never done ( along with some drinks ) and enjoy what this world has to offer.
Just try it.

Good luck, be safe and most importantly HAVE FUN!!!

Answer 6

i dont know anything about you but im familier with the situations. nobody is worthless no matter how bad things are...there is always someone who cares about you even if they do have a annoying personality...it doesnt mean settle for them but keep them in your life until something great pops up. things suck now right? well the best thing to do about that is plan for the future. once you stop making plans is when you are really going to need help. not from me not from others on here but real help. i work fire/rescue and i gotta tell you the one thing that i see when im called to a sucide is someone who absolutly gave up...so im sure thats not what your talking about hun but just make plans for the future. thats the best way yo stay optamistic

Answer 7

i felt like you too actually just a few weeks ago. last year i wanted to commit suicide..but im not sure if i was being serious. just think about all the good things. no one is perfect, and there isnt always like this ONE girl that all the guys are after. how do you kno if no one likes you?? there has to be AT LEAST like, 2 or 3 ppl who like you. just feel confident. and maybe your friends are just jealous of you for something. also, when i feel like i have nobody i grab an old stuffed animal that i used to love when i was little and talk to it. that actually makes me feel good :) lol or talk to a pet if you have one.

Answer 8

fisrt have a journal, or maybe even just a list. Make 2 catogories under on catogory put "good things about me ect." try focousing on the good things, not the negative. Do something active, or something u enjoy doing, like listen to up beat music, or even dancing. If you feel stressed and extra depressed sign up for something extra relaxing like yoga. Also make sure your eatting balanced meals and excrise, dont spend your days on the couch worrying or being depressed, go outside and do something happy! good luck 2 u!

Answer 9

Aww I feel the same way sometimes- I just cry and eat.. maybe u have to eat??? do u have any brothers or sisters? sometimes hanging around grandparents or cousins or aunts or uncles- not ure parents! helps too-- go out to eat or a movie-- listening to fast music puts me in a good mood sometimes or brings back good memories--- sometimes i try to talk to other ppl about being sad but they dont listen or just ignore it- which makes me feel worse-- but try the family thing- if u have any little cousins or babies around they can put u in a good mood too! read a magazine - look at pictures-- even try to work out-- I hope this helps - I'll try these out too...

Answer 10

i think your last line answers your own ?... your parents are critical and judgemental of you, and right now you feel , worthless ,ugly and like no one cares, that s because that is what your parents have taught you,,, but it is NOT TRUE ,,, look in YOUR heart, forget everyone else, and think about what you FEEL not what you think someone else wants you to think or feel ,,, stay away from men till you feel strong and know yourself your real self not what you think is you from someone else's prospective but from yours,,, only then when you know yourself TRULY know YOURSELF should you try a relationship been there done that, take it from someone , who has lived it , and learned it for forty years you and only you decide your destiny dont let ANYONE change it,,, best of luck and wishes,,,,,