i found out that my boyfriend of 3 years is cheating on me(with more that one woman) if i bust him, i will lose everything. what would you do?
2006-12-12 16:12:50 · 22 answers · asked by NursieAngie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you have to possibly lose with a cheatin a$$ man?Girl keep him for a lil' bit until you find a GOOD man and dump his a$$ high and dry....or you should just learn to do for yourself for now....think about your heart....
2006-12-12 16:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What are you really loosing? A guy who is cheating! Why are you going to waste another minute on a guy who treats you this way...dont you want more?
No sense in busting him...he will know why soon enough. Hit him where it hurts and leave him w.o even acting like you know about the others. He will think you met someone else or lost interest in him.
2006-12-13 00:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bust him, you MIGHT be lucky enough to lose your dependence on a person who would kick your heart to the curb, probably for ANY woman who'd do him - and then LIE about it to your face. Confront! You may lose a lot, but your life will go on, and the longer you wait the more you will lose. Good luck.
2006-12-13 00:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by zilmag 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem too torn up about it in your words. Maybe the two of you can share girlfriends? If not that then bust him. You can't have a lasting relationship if he's cheating on you.
2006-12-13 00:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife of 22yrs,the person that I trusted more than any one .I Caught her .Come to find out she had been having an affair for 2yrs or more.It almost killed me.Even though it's been 3yrs since I caught her and she promises it will never happen again I will never trust her or any body again.To answer you ,you will always wounder so get to the thruth even though you might loose everyyhing you'll have peace of mind.
2006-12-13 00:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by hardcopy_hrdcopy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have proof and/or relationship is sliding downhill, you should talk with him and tell him you know what is going on. You need to protect yourself from physical harm with disease he could be bringing to you, but think more of yourself to protect that inner person that is being treated so poorly; don't allow it.
You do need to confront this issue, because it is a sign of a whole lot of things going on that brought you here.
2006-12-13 00:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have been there to, only i wasn't with him for 3yrs only 1 but still. If u know for sure that he is cheating on u then there is no point staying together find someone who will treat u right.
2006-12-13 00:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do yourself a favor and move on he is not worth it. I am sure the no.1 thing on your list would be to have a faithful loving boyfriend right? He is not you are not really loosing anything.
2006-12-13 00:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by recip529 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump him i certainly wouldn't like to be cheated on or as some people also say be his love puppy if he is sleeping around with others then that should show you that he is not that interested in you so get rid of him and start fresh
2006-12-13 00:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Fiona...wait until Christmas is over. Play mind games with him to torture him until you can get on your own 2 feet and Then Send the ogre back to the swamp where he belongs.
2006-12-13 00:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by Belle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋