I like this gurl.. and im not sure if she has feelings for me right now but i know she did a couple months ago.. im gonna try the impossible and try to win her over because she is an amazing gurl.. do u think this is possible, keep in mind we are 18 years of age!!
2006-12-12 16:07:08 · 20 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not impossible. It is actually pretty easy. The bigger and more important question you have to ask yourself though is, "are you sure this is what you want?" Do you only want her because she is "unavailable?" Think hard.
Also, even though challenges are fun and even more fun when you win... is this a challenge you want to win? Even if you win the girl from another guy, what makes you think that a girl that would ditch anyone to be with you, wouldn't ditch you later down the road to be with someone else? Find someone hotter and more fun that doesn't have a boyfriend.
Trust me, she is out there. In fact, you'll meet atleast a dozen girls this week that are hotter and more fun. Just because this one gives you a little attention or "liked" you a little while ago doesn't mean jack.
2006-12-12 16:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm if she is truly in love with the guy she is with and is completly devoted to him and very happy with him i dont think you will stand a chance on winning her back its not a game its real li8fe stop and think maybe she just isnt into like that if was to begin with she would be with you and not him hmm shes with him and not you that tells me she likes you as a freind and nothing more no matter what you do you will probably never get her completly but she may come to you for a shoulder to cry on or maybe some advice but you may never get her back i would suggest just be there for her when she needs you the be there if she falls be there if she needs a shoulder call her and say hay sometimes if you try to get her back and she knows about it you are liable to lose her all together and never have her in any way shape or form the best thing is just be there for her if she needs if she isnt into this guy that much hay go for it
2006-12-13 00:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by jefft_4209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself again why your doing what you think you want to do, (winning the girl over the man). Is your love for her?
Or is it for yourself?
Would what you do make her hurt and unhappy? would she suffer from your actoin?
Love sometimes isnt about getting the girl. Its about sacrifice and whats truely right for the ones you love, in this case its the girl...
If you think she's all right with her man and is already happy with him then by loving her you have to be her friend and support her frm behind.
But if you think, (think carefully now...) that the man doesnt give her any happiness at all, then she'll be the one coming to you looking for your promise support.
You can take the easy way, or go and take the right way...
Your choice
2006-12-13 00:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already HAS a bf, and you knowingly pursue her and win..., you'll get exactly what you deserve. What comes around goes around....next time, it could be another guy "stealing" her from you. Would you want to be in a commited relationship with a woman that would leave YOU for another guy? Think before you act young man, and you'll do the right thing.
2006-12-13 00:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude i wish you the best of luck first second of all even if you do win her over like you said your only 18 your not probally goin to stay together forever. I hope that doesnt upset you. NOw to your question it is possible if you act smart and are aware of any conflicts and how to beat them. I personally have stolen guys girls away from them again good luck and best of wishes to you
2006-12-13 00:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Max D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to "win over a women" is if she's not happy in the current relationship and both of your feelings are mutual. If that's the case you got it!
2006-12-13 00:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkalious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this, try looking around her- she is presently being entertained by some one else. Look to those close to her that may actually find you of interest. The best woman to have is the one that selects you.
2006-12-13 00:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by FLH67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she finds you to be a better match for her.. then yes.. otherwise you might end up getting your heart broken.. i was that girl just a few weeks ago.. in love with my bf.. but met some guy who decided to try the 'impossible' i ended up staying with my bf because this other guy wasn't for me.. even now.. weeks later he still asks me if theres a chance i'll change my mind..
u can try.. if it's for love..
2006-12-13 00:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think it's impossible. It happened to me. The decision is entirely up to her. You are young and it happens all the time! Beware of any fall-out that may result if you should succeed!
2006-12-13 00:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want her if you could? Keep in mind, that if she can dump him for you, then she can dump you for the next guy. A girl that shallow isn't worth having.
2006-12-13 00:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋