I have been dating this guy on and off for five years, everytime I bring us being more he says that he isnt ready for one. what should i do to bring him closer or should i try someone else?
2006-12-12 16:05:58 · 18 answers · asked by questionsrme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well after five years your not so serious relationship , doesn't include sex, Right. If it does then you two have a serious relationship. So unless you both are serious with someone else as well , you should talk about it. I'm not saying get married at all. I would just talk about each others expectations, and see what happens. Commitment is probally all you need, if you have no commitment to each other , what's the worry !
2006-12-12 16:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years and he still does'nt want a serious relationship??? On the other hand....why should he if you have been giving up the milk for free for 5 years.
This is truely a no brainer and I'm sorry this may sound cruel.....but Honey, move on.Why would you hang around for so long? It should be him asking you to take it to the next level. If he has'nt done so within 5 years.....don't expect him to do it anytime soon.It's obvious he is holding out for someone better to come along.But if you're willing to be there for when he needs some "free milk" , then he is definately going to milk you.
2006-12-12 16:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he likes you, but is not ready for a serious relationship with YOU. That means he will be seeing others. That means do not start planning or thinking there is a you and him. That means he sees you as a friend. Lastly, you're a booty call.....Try a relationship out with someone who wants what you want. Don't settle for less. If less is available, take none!
2006-12-12 16:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After five years, it should be obvious to you that this guy likes the relationship just as it is. If you want more, you should look for someone else who wants the same thing that you do.
2006-12-12 16:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've given him five years. If it had only been a few months, I would say he might be serious and you could wait it out, but as it is, you need to move on and find someone who really appreciates you.
2006-12-12 16:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 Years? You have been off and on with this chump for 5 years? Let the guy go- find someone who will commit to you & only you. You have already lost 5 years of your life witht his creep- move on , good luck.
2006-12-12 16:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just mean that she just came out of a relationship that was pretty intense for her and she obviously had feelings for this guy cause she went out with him for a year and a half, she was probably pretty upset that he cheated on her so you just have to let her cool down and relax. Im sure she will want to go out with you soon just let her take her time. Good Luck
2016-05-23 16:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.Obviously he is ready for a relationship, knowing that you've been dating for 5 years.He's not worth the wait anyways.
2006-12-12 16:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try someone else. What he is telling you is that he likes your company, but you aren't good enough to be his girlfriend...You are good enough to sleep with but not good enough to be his girl...You've been there for 5 years...if he isn't ready by now, how long are you going to wait for him to be ready? He's telling you something...you just have to open your eyes and be willing to see what he's telling you.
2006-12-12 16:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been five years, if he doesn't want more by now, he never will. It may be time to consider moving on and finding someone who will commit.
2006-12-12 16:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋