one of my best friends is trying to convince me i can date better girls. she feels that the girls that i am dating are sluts and bitches. she thinks that i need to break up with my gf. before i date anyone else however she feels that i need to start going to church find god and start "loving myself" as she puts it. I dont know if i can do any better however. Im not usualy a negative type guy but im a little bit scared to do much better. I feel secure where i am right now. i know that my gf is not going to break up with me. Should i listen to my friend, dump my gf right now who is kinda mean find god and then try again but aim for higher or should i remain where i am? I never have found god before even though i do believe that there is a god. I dont believe that he cares about me.
btw im a freshmen in college, athletic build, the prep
Also if your hoping for me to give you best answer dont tell me i have problems
2006-12-12 16:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
When a girl says that you can do better what she means is that you could have her. Having her would probably involve changing your life but you are the one who has to decide if that is the right choice. Just something to think about
2006-12-12 16:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's more than likely going to find out eventually. Better to find out early on by you than later by someone else. It'll hurt him less if you just tell him the truth rather than him finding out on his own that you've been lieing hiding it from him this whole time. A real friend would come out and have the balls to just be honest and up front.
2016-05-23 16:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe what YOU believe, not what everyone else wants you to. Just because your friend wants you to turn to Christianity, doesn't mean that you should if you don't personally believe in it.
If you feel comfortable with the life you have now, stick with it. You'll never feel good chasing after something that you're not interested in, or something that you don't want.
2006-12-12 16:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Total Eclipse Of The Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is lookin' for the hook up. If you want to go to church, then go. If you don't feel your relationship is going anywhere, end it. Maybe you should try the Belief-O-Matic to see which religion best fits your beliefs before you start looking under churches for God. http://www.beliefnet.com/story/76/story_7665_1.html
You should definitely work on believing i yourself before you try to belief in anything else.
2006-12-12 16:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you should dump your girl friend has nothing to do with God. I don't know your social status or that of your girl friend so I can't judge. I suspect from this statement though you can't do any better. I know I wouldn't go with you. but that's just me. xx
2006-12-12 16:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends comments are proof that the others are not as nice as you deserve so I recommend doing as you are and ignoring the ****** girl(it's probably a Freudian projection of her own out look). Just tell her there is no accounting for taste and use your own better judgment .
peaceout
2006-12-12 16:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude! dont let this girl turn you to the church. Girls will try and do that. stop hanging out with this poop. You dont try make her not go to church so why should she try make you go. the girls you date might be sl*ts. But most of the christian girls I've met are the sl*ttiest of them all. they like it up the bum and crap.
2006-12-12 16:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy, tell your so-called friend to butt out. Its none of herbusiness who you date, and your religion is none of her business either, you don't need friends who are trying to change you into them
2006-12-12 16:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋