i am single dont smoke drink use drugs i work 2 jobs i am not so good looking i dont drive an expensive car and i am rich but its really hard for me to meet a girl to date wich i havnt done in 6 years how does a single really shy guy able to meet a girl
2006-12-12 15:45:33 · 9 answers · asked by jefft_4209 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 46 years old not to toot my horn but everybody thinks im in my mid to early 30's
2006-12-13 11:19:42 · update #1
Hello I am here lol_
I dont want your money you can keep it...I have my own
2006-12-12 15:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on yourself first. If you are preoccupied with how ugly you think you are, your prospects are going to disappear quickly. No one wants to coddle an insecure person. Remember, stereotypically women are less interested in men's looks compared to the opposite for men. If you're fun to be around, chances are the last thing a gal will be thinking about is your looks.
As for the shyness, take baby steps. What is probably tripping you up is your perception of women. Try not to think of girls as potential dates but rather as friends or even just as guys. If there turns out to be a connection, things will move more naturally. If not, hopefully you'll end up with a good playmate hehehe.
2006-12-12 16:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by FucAlloYu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, and try to be a good friend to everyone. You'll find someone eventually. Oh, and be yourself!
Oh, how to be less shy (I got this tip from someone here, actually). Every night, tell yourself you're the best person in the World. Tell yourself why you're the best person in the World. Now, ask everyone 5 things they appreciate and like about you. Sooner or later, you'll become really confident.
Remember, take your time in love. Don't rush it.
Hope this helps. Good luck! I have faith in you! :D
2006-12-12 15:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never try to find love at a bar. go to like the food store or something. sike, but really, trying to find love in a bar is like trying to fight for peace. as for how to talk to them, just be yourself, and show interest in her, ask her where her favorite place to eat is, and ask her if she wouldn't mind you taking her there. while you're on that date, you can find more things out about her, such as where she comes from, does she like to read, what goals does she have. make her laugh too. tell corny jokes. etc. ya know, just showing interest, and actually listening is a sure way to get things going with a girl. but don't push things, if she says she's not really interested in being tied down yet, but wants to see how things progress. and it should come easier from there.
2016-05-23 16:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more secure with yourself, and more confident. Confidence is sexy! Don't, however, confuse confidence with flat-out @-hole arrogance.
You might try changing your style of clothes. Take a class in something you like. Indulge in your hobbies.
NEVER reveal your income. If you want to attract the gold diggers, then mention how much you make during the first conversation with a girl. A lady with honorable intentions who wants you for you, will not care how much you make. Use common sense.
2006-12-12 15:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bars, learn to socialize
2006-12-12 15:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls look over any physical flaws if you have lots of cash. They will use and abuse you but you won't be lonely.
2006-12-12 15:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful so you aren't taken advantage of.
2006-12-12 15:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you put everything except your age......
2006-12-12 15:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋