first of all IMO everyone has some borderline traits, especially people who grew up in a severely dysfunctional household. all 3 of these disorders have common characteristics. for example people who have BPD are usually very dependent on others but at the same time have trouble bonding.
you are who you are. you can accept these diagnoses and stay as you are or work hard to change what needs changing while recognizing what is good in you. make up your mind that you will outgrow this. it won't all change at once but you will feel more in control of yourself. good luck with the challenge. you have it in you to win this.
2006-12-12 15:49:12
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answered by Justme 4
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Well, the traits have a tendency to overlap a bit. Borderline is the spooky one.
What ever you do, stay on your meds. That is the most common problem people have that struggle with mental disorders. They all think they no longer need their meds. That is when the problems start.
2006-12-12 15:46:02
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answered by maamu 6
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Accept yourself.
Recently I've come to the realization that I'm not all that sane either.
2/5 of my family is diagnose BPD. I haven't mainly because I didn't need to be as a child and now as an adult, I can't afford doctors.
I am learning how to slowly change myself. It is possible.
All it takes is will power and being an adult.
But what has helped me is realizing that everyone is messed up. They may try to hide it but whatever.
The best way for you to learn to live with it is to accept yourself as having these things and learn how to unincorporate them from your life.
Your an individual. All flowers have some petals that aren't pretty .
2006-12-12 15:55:29
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answered by the nothing 4
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First and main, in the event you even suspect that is real, make the fastest and most secure go out you probably can from this trouble. But unluckily for lots of, if that they had the potential to comply with that, they might have in no way gotten into the trouble to start with. But from a in basic terms educational viewpoint, there are a couple of signs which serve good as warnings. one million. Pathological mendacity. The lack of ability to distinguish among truth and a fixated want. two. A entire lack of ability to be empathic of the demands and feelings of others. three. A continual belligerent and abusive attack on any who disagree with them. four. A predefined description of one more's lifestyles from which departure isn't allowed. There are extra, however those are adequate for any wise man or woman to behave upon. But as I mentioned above, if a man or woman unnoticed (denied) the signs of habits whilst coming into the connection, probabilities are small they are going to triumph over that denial and unfastened themselves from it. I've already had one near pal murdered via her baby's father, being thoroughly mindful of the violence that man or woman used to be equipped of, and had naturally verified. Now, I become aware of there's not anything that someone can do for one more to enlighten them. A man or woman is both dedicated to truthfulness, or they are no longer. If you are no longer dedicated to truthfulness, you will not require it from the ones round you both. More as a rule than no longer, we're deceived due to the fact that we select to be. The unrealistic notion in one more's potential to difference, is the principal intent why you select to get into the connection to start with. That is step one of denial, and often deadly. Shingoshi Dao 2007.Nov.12 Mon, 14:fifty eight --800 (PST)
2016-09-03 13:30:10
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answered by Anonymous
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never heard of borderline......avoidant can be fixed, my son recognized it himself and just got a self help book....dependent...well darling, a little hypnosis to take away your insecurities will allow you to be dependent on yourself and stand on your own two feet!
2006-12-12 16:16:17
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answered by WitchTwo 6
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God's love, right?
2006-12-12 17:45:06
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answered by APenny 2
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