One of my friend loved me so much, but I was not very sure if he is the one for me and I was also liking one of my friend, but was not sure. Was taking some time to think and it went like 5 to 6 months..But later, the first guy said he is going to marry and want my ans..I said see still I am not sure but as of now not saying No also..lil confused though I like u. He said ok, he didnt see other girls. I really like him, but again I started loving the second guy alowly, and decided that wil say no to the first one. Lately I know I did a right thing. The second one does not like me and that is fine..But the first one says, u will never be in happy and hates me ..i am so bad , played with his life and many bad and harsh things..what do I do? I was confused that time..
2006-12-12 15:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of my friend loved me so much, but I was not very sure if he is the one for me and I was also liking one of my friend, but was not sure. Was taking some time to think and it went like 5 to 6 months..But later, the first guy said he is going to marry and want my ans..I said see still I am not sure but as of now not saying No also..lil confused though I like u. He said ok, he didnt see other girls. I really like him, but again I started loving the second guy alowly, and decided that wil say no to the first one. Lately I know I did a right thing. The second one does not like me and that is fine..But the first one says, u will never be in happy and hates me ..i am so bad , played with his life and many bad and harsh things..what do I do? I was confused that time..now the first guy will be married after I said No, My god he is cursing me like anything, i feel thats Y i am not getting my love of life? If some one loves someone how can we curse?
2006-12-12 15:47:08 · update #1
One of my friend loved me so much, but I was not very sure if he is the one for me and I was also liking one of my friend, but was not sure. Was taking some time to think and it went like 5 to 6 months..But later, the first guy said he is going to marry and want my ans..I said see still I am not sure but as of now not saying No also..lil confused though I like u. He said ok, he didnt see other girls. I really like him, but again I started loving the second guy alowly, and decided that wil say no to the first one. Lately I know I did a right thing. The second one does not like me and that is fine..But the first one says, u will never be in happy and hates me ..i am so bad , played with his life and many bad and harsh things..what do I do? I was confused that time..now the first guy will be married after I said No, My god he is cursing me like anything, i feel thats Y i am not getting my love of life? If some one loves someone how can we curse?
2006-12-12 15:47:09 · update #2
Don't worry so much about it. He waited for you when he didn't have to. It was his decision, he can live with it. If you know you did the right thing for you, that is the important thing.
2006-12-12 15:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from your hesitation,chalk it up as expperience for the next time, cuz believe me sister, there WILL be a next time, & you'll be ready then. OK? Main thing is don't beat yourself up over it, we all screw up, its human nature. Someday you'll understand why it worked out the way it did & you'll be glad... ;-)
2006-12-12 23:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
lots of luck happy holidays
2006-12-12 23:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is be honest.Tell him...
2006-12-12 23:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋