seriously...it has to make some difference to a women doesn't it?..i know personality and the way he treats you is number one but when your in bed and you need "yours" isn't size and thickness key to getting off , or are you going to say its how he uses what he has...ladies we need honesty here
2006-12-12 15:32:01 · 18 answers · asked by dave v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Size and thickness are not the key to getting off. A pinky can get a woman off if it is used properly (ask any sex therapist) and many women prefer other kinds of stimulation for consistent orgasm, no matter what size the guy is. Frankly, in my life I can honestly say that I have never had a complaint about a guy being too small, but I have been with guys that were so big that I couldn't face trying a second time with them - it was that uncomfortable. Everything has it's good side and it's bad side.
Peace!
2006-12-12 15:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy but I'm a jump in on this one. Size matters to some degree…. no matter what women say politely. Any woman who's ever dated Pee-wee knows it's just not quite as good as it could be.
But always remember too much of a good thing is a bad thing. One girlfriend I had actually dated a guy that was hung like a Shetland pony. She liked it…. but also said she was afraid it might leave a lasting impression. She also mentioned the guy never got laid in high school because any time a girl would whip out Mr. huge Hefner…. they would say no way !! How about a hand job ?
So the good life is probably somewhere in the middle. Also some advice from a pro…. I've used this tongue to get many women in bed and used it to keep them there ! You did not have to take off your pants to impress the women.
Mark
Author GirlsTellAll
2006-12-12 23:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, there are some of us ladies who like guys from the inside out, not because his package is too small, medium size, or ten feet tall in size. nor is the thickness matters, as long you love the person sincerely and no one else but that one and only. you can enjoy yourself no matter what anyone else thinks or states. liking-loving -needing-caring deeply for someone can only come from the heart. how honest is that? i know from great testimonial realationships, i do not judge the size and thickness of a mans package. i tend to not ever be the judging kind of person.
2006-12-12 23:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size doesn't matter to all women. Some are being nice and some are being honest. Truthfully, just getting out of an abusive relationship, I would be happy with a man who treated me with kindness, respect, and loved me for who I am. There are other ways of having an orgasm besides a big ****. That's why there are toys and other positions.
2006-12-12 23:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know what you're doing then no is doesn't matter. people take for granted that just because a guy may be more well endowed then others that he automatically knows what he's doing. so untrue. and there's such a thing as being too big. women are built to take but so much. so the last thing a guy should be worrying about is his size. he should worry about whether or not he knows what he's doing and if not is he man enough to learn.
2006-12-12 23:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes a difference....to a certain point.
If he's the size of my pinky finger, I truly hope that he can more than make up for it in other ways.
If he's in competition with a baseball bat or whale, then he can stay the he!! away...or get into the adult industry.
A man who is too small, a woman can't get the full effect/massage. If he's too big, he risks stretching my ish out, and I'm not for that.
Give me the standard size with a nice motion! I'm a happy girl!
2006-12-12 23:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will men finally get it? Sure, I'm going to say that there are women that care, but the majority of women don't care. They care more about how you treat them than they care about your penis size. Please get over it. If she loves you, she loves all of you. If you weren't blessed in the nether region, that is OK. There are plenty of other ways to satisfy your women, All you have to do is ask her what she likes.
I have been with a few different people and you know what? I have never compared the size of one versus the other. I compared my feeling about the person attached to it.
2006-12-12 23:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin so I've obviously got no personal experience...but everything I've read says that it really isn't the size that matters. Since the clitoris is what needs to be stimulated, it wouldn't make a difference if there was three inches or ten. *shrug*
2006-12-12 23:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well then if you want honesty be a little more honest in length and thickness and firmness. Being kind and thoughtful is important!
2006-12-12 23:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its not always true but most all ladies will not care only girls will care because they have no idea what they are looking for in a guy>
2006-12-12 23:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋