Ok so I work with this guy lets call him Colin.....and he calls me ALL the time and is constantly txting me or something. He knows that i have a daughter and a on and off boyfriend. Colin always calls me "pretty lady" or "beautiful" i rarely answer his calls or talk to him at work (to give him a hint) and he just wont get it!!! What can I do.....i am with someone else who is also getting annoyed by Colin.
2006-12-12 15:29:20 · 14 answers · asked by roseupmylife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sic your boyfriend on him and have him answer the phone next time he calls. That will freak him the hell out.
2006-12-12 15:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, he's probably just trying to be nice and show you that you're someone special...so cut him a break.
Second, you have an "on again off again" boyfriend...which means absolutely crap. Either you have someone steady in your life or you don't...stop using that excuse.
You really ought to try being nice...oh, and who cares how your "on again off again" friend feels.
Just reiterate that you'd appreciate if he didn't call so much/text so much...but really...cut the guy a break. He's proabably a better guy than your "on again, off again" boyfriend anyway.
2006-12-12 23:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not interested and that you are seeing someone...i don't think there's a better way you can tell him...however at one point you must've been interested in him and now your not and maybe it's b/c of your on and off boyfriend...thats why it's not always good to give your number out sometimes it's better to take the number that way you have control over who makes the calls.
2006-12-12 23:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you so much that he's preoccupied with you. He won't stop until you give him a respond that you're not interested. Explain your situation. Tell him that he bothers you and that you'd appreciate if he stopped.
2006-12-12 23:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are going to report him to your supervisor and if he does not stop, tell them. This is sexual harrasment, and you dont have to put up with it. Forget getting him in trouble, he is the one getting him self in trouble.
If your boss does nothing, go to HR dept.
2006-12-12 23:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're going to have to come right out and tell him. Tell him that it's causing problems in your relationship and you need him not to call you anymore.
2006-12-12 23:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to stop calling you?
2006-12-12 23:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by LSD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMM LMAO IM COLIN! LMAO OMG YOU ***** WHY WONT YOU TALK TO ME ! I LOVE YOU
2006-12-12 23:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get blunt with him.
2006-12-12 23:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you're not interested....if he persists, contact your HR dept. and let them know he's bothering you.
2006-12-12 23:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋