Well I love him but I also wanna date more go through my 20es partying and dating
and he kinda proposed
i have a promice ring and
ONG help!!!
2006-12-12 15:24:37 · 18 answers · asked by Niya D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you don't love him, don't be leading him on like this.
Make a decision.
2006-12-12 15:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey you are not ready to get married you already no that answer. If you truly loved him you would not want anything more in this world than to be with him every minute of everyday. You are so smart to wait and live your life while you are young. You may find Mr. Right somewhere along the line or you may come back to him only to find that he has found Mrs right. Just tell him that you care deeply for him but you are not ready for marriage at such a young age. Good Communication is the key to a lasting relationship. You need to communicate to him how you feel. Have fun swimming in that great big sea out there.
2006-12-12 23:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by crazynuns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and party but be assured that, he doesn't have to be single by the time you come back for him. If both of you reach an agreement to not see each other but maybe talk once in a blue moon on the phone for one or two year, that may not be a bad idea so that during that time, you would have the opportunity to think and know whether you really love him or finding it difficult to let him go.
2006-12-12 23:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are feeling that you wanna date more then you shouldnt get married. I know a lot of people who married their HS sweet hearts and it's has lasted many years and still going strong. But they were both sure of marriage when they tied the knot. Good luck and dont cheat yourself if you have doubts
2006-12-12 23:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would WAIT!!! You should be able to date through your 20s if that's what you want. And if you two are truly in love you both can wait on each other. Besides if you have mixed feelings about marrying him when he proposed--it wouldn't be a good idea to get married because you might end up getting divorced. Just tell him that it is too soon to think about marriage. Good luck!
2006-12-12 23:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by crazyk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its a great idea to marry your high school sweetheart. I've been with mine since junior year and we've been together five years. However, it doesn't sound like you're ready to make that kind of committment. I would slow things down and not get too serious so fast.
2006-12-12 23:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not a bad idea however you must be really careful when you want to make the last decision because not all the feelings of love in our teenagers times are true and last long ...
if you're given a promise ring ,he could be serious with you..i wish you luck but you really must think seriously to avoid being heart broken and miserable after wards ...
2006-12-12 23:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long have you been going out? How is your relationship? You have a good question but if you want it answered accurately you should provide a bit more information. Off of what you gave the best answer I can give is to go with your heart.
2006-12-12 23:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by girl of lamancha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds so romantic...but it only works in the movies (usually) ! I think you should slow down a bit, reevaluate yourself...find out if you truly love him, and if he only is with you because you wants to break that promise...if you know what I mean. Marry him is you wish, what does your heart say?
2006-12-12 23:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ramona S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should agree to break up and see other people for awhile then get back together in a while and see if you'd rather be together and get married. And make sure that you love him enough for that!
2006-12-12 23:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean high school sweet heart?...hmm, thats interesting.
anyways, if you wanta party and date and thinks thats what you want to do for a while, definitley say no, he wants a commitment not a one night stand, and if he really loves you, he will wait for you and if not, what is meant to be, will be.
2006-12-12 23:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by *mommy to two* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋