I started dating my boyfriend almost two months ago. He was sweet, we were both very happy.
Then, we went to the movies, adnd he tried to kiss me, and I got nervous and froze. We talked it over, a month went by, we were happy with each other.
I got sick and missed roughly two weeks of school, and he didn't call or ask me how I was once. When I got back, he ignored me, stopeed calling and acted like he didn't like me..
So we talked it over, he had herd from someone that I was mad at him, and I reassured him I was not mad. I thought everything was fine.
Today, he accused me of flirting with other guys. He started acting all defensive and angry with me. Even though I hardly flirt with other guys, they flirt with me.
He'll seem like he likes me one day, then the next he'll ignore me and act ashamed. When I talk to him about it, he says I'm just being quiet and not talking to him, but I know that's not it.
I don't want to break up w/ him. I like him too much. What do I do??
2006-12-12 15:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But the deal with the flirting.
I flirted just in a light fun way with a couple of my fun guy friends during on of the weeks he completely said nothing to me.
And his not talking to me had nothing to do with my playful flirting. I joked around with my friends because he didn't say a single word to me for almost a week.
2006-12-12 15:27:40 · update #1
It appears that you have 2 conclusions you can come to. The first is that he is emotionally unstable and having problems. Walk away. The second is that he wants to break it off. A mature person would have called you when you were sick esecially since you had not had any conflicts. I think he was giving you a big hint that he is not into you as much as you are into him. None of us ever like to reject
anyone. He is just creating problems that don't seem to exist. Send him a note that you think he is a great guy but he is sending you mixed messages about his feelings. Tell him you understand if he wants to move on and there will be no hard feelings.You really are asking for trouble when you are in a relationship with someone that listens to what other people think without giving you any say in your own defense. Also,he sees your interaction with other guys and automatically swells up and accuses you of flirting.You really don't need this troublesome person. Begin asking yourself now why you are attracted to this man. Watch for trends in the type of men you coose to see if they have similar behaviors and attitudes. You deserve a normal relationship. Good luck,Merry Christ'mas!:)
2006-12-12 15:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look ur BF is being a ***** and is confused of how much he likes you
He eather LOVES you and is scered to tell and is distaning himself from you not to her himself and or you
or he's just tired of you
eather way you need a break to realize what is happening
for him to miss you and want you back
if you guys take a break all you need to do is ignore being a ***** be there for him as a friend and help him talk thing over
hang out like friends
If not talk to him and assure hin of how much you love him and that there is nothing more important in the world then him
NiNi
2006-12-12 23:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Niya D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop wasting your time on him. He's not right for you. A dude will always blame the women for everything going wrong in a realtionship, so heads up, if u don't break up with him he will find a reason to break it off with you and u will be more hurt down the line. Another thing u can't like a person who treats u lilke sh**!
2006-12-12 23:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you like him, or the drama? He sounds possessive and controlling. Why is he talking to everyone about your relationship but you? Could turn out to be more trouble than he's worth.
2006-12-12 23:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like you all don't have a relationship. It also sound like both of you are very immature, so I think growing up is the best thing for you to do.
2006-12-12 23:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by DFlavor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all..... you shouldn't even be flirting AT ALL. I can understand why he wouldn't like that...
And second of all, it sounds like you two are young and not ready for a relationship.
2006-12-12 23:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to deal with his split personality. Breaking it off would be your best bet. Unless you like feeling like crap.
2006-12-12 23:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Not You, Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a guy like that if he is accussing you of cheating you don't need himfind some one that really likes you
2006-12-12 23:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by jayjaywalkler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that how much you love him..
Tell him that you don't want break up...
talk it over....
do your best you can..
2006-12-12 23:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go this is unhealthy for you.
2006-12-12 23:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by dijfojri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋