i like have ppl tellme that i m pretty all the time, but no one even glances my way, i mean i have boys that are my friends but not a boy friend... am i that repulsive to all the guys out there?
if you feel the same you can contact me, its in my profile...
2006-12-12 15:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by Dani California 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok honey, just be the way that you are and be thankful for that there are people saying you are pretty
2006-12-12 15:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
ok i had this problem when i was younger, you are friends with all the guys and they don't want to date their friend. They don't glance your way because you are "just one of the guys" I felt that way at one time and this is what I did. I had two of my best friends that were guys sit down and tell me why no one would date me. They said none of the boys that wanted to date me were good enough for me so they ran them off. That could be happening to you and you never know anything about it. Have a talk with them and see whats going on.
2006-12-12 23:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always was pretty and felt the same way when i was younger. I realize boys were afraid of my beauty. They were scared to talk to me. Basically i intimidated them. Don't feel bad you have to go for what u want.I am 40 now , its still hard for a guy to talk to me. because i look 22.just have fun with ur beauty u never know what will happen.
2006-12-12 23:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by t10t15t66 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I felt that way when I was in high school. I think I just wasn't open to the idea of being with someone, I was a little freaked out by it. When I think back on it, I realize I was overthinking the whole thing, and feeling more and more lonely by the minute. I wish I could go back to that time and just loosen up and laugh more and not worry about what people thought of me. I know now that if I could, I would attract someone to me because I'd be more myself, more attractive and magnetic.
2006-12-12 23:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
welll to tell you the truth, a lot of guys are totally clueless about girls! if you want a guy, just show them that you are interested. just playing around flirting with guy friends will make a total difference to them. im sure you arent repulsive to them at all! guys love confidence, and if people tell you that you are pretty, its probably true. dont be all over them though, that is not attractive. as long as you have are smiling, making eye contact, and are obviously comfortable and having fun, guys will want to get to know you a LOT better!
good luck!
2006-12-12 23:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its all a mater of how you see your self.. I'm a heavy guy but I never didn't have a date.. i am confident in who I am and what I have to offer. you need to gain more confidence in yourself.. do things that make you feel good about you..get your hair done, get a manicure stuff like that..just make sure it makes you feel good about you then guys are gonna pick up on that cause you'll shine. then your gonna have dudes knocking at the door at all hours of the night calling while your trying to sleep, just plainly being the immature nuisances that we are
2006-12-12 23:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to feel the same way you did. everyone i knew told me how pretty i was and that i didnt need make up or anything to make me pretty. but like you i never got the attention from the guys. it upset me like you would not belive. but i learned just to be more confident. most guys look at confidence rather than looks. go around and be confident. its the best thing
2006-12-12 23:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlilemt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretty girls are assumed to be taken. Or guys figure that they have no chance so they don't even try. Don't sweat it. Study hard and be successful. That is more important than a guy.
2006-12-12 23:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just takes time, hit the books and learn, boys will come
2006-12-13 00:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and help someone who really needs help and some hope and get out of yourself .
I am serious , this is what I have learned to do .
2006-12-12 23:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋