My friend and I talk, we laugh and have a good time (in school). We sometimes talk on the phone and online. But in reality I really like her and I think I always have since I met her, yet she is unaware of this. Her last boyfriend went out with her for around 2 years and I haven't sustained a relationship that long. They broke up around 3 months ago. How do I make a move without looking like an dick? How would you go about transforming this friendship into a relationship?
Im a junior in high school, and I have 3 weeks until I can get my car. I want to wait for this before I ask any one out. I have had bad experiences with dates without transportation. I want to go out with her as soon as I can get my car. How do I make a smooth transition from being Just Friends to maybe more?
2006-12-12 15:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Also:
I see her for one hour a day during the day. And then we just take small walks occasionally in between classes. It's tough when other guys are around to say anything in general.
2006-12-12 15:34:10 · update #1
Just ask her out. If she likes you, she will be glad to take you up on that. I take it you already have her phone number . . . so just call her one day and ask her if she'd like to go out for coffee, or a movie, or something like that. Good luck!
2006-12-12 15:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate! You wont look like a dick, trust me. You can transform the friendship into a relationship, no problem, but you have to really consider that it is going to be hard work, because you want both.
Just make sure above all else, tell her how you feel about her. See if she feels the same way. Start hanging out with her more than usual, ask her out on little dinner dates, just start out slow. Before you know it, something will blossom all on its own.....
2006-12-12 15:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Vanes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't wait for the car. Make a move now and be ready to celebrate when the car arrives with someone the party with. As for how to approach her, well... you got yourself stuck in that ol' friend status and it is a hard line to tow. Just ask her out and but instead of a movie or party. Take a long walk with her and have a Heart to Heart.
2006-12-12 15:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by SHADE A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three weeks is not that long. You can wait. Get your car and take her out to do stuff on a Saturday. Just hang out all day and laugh and joke around and stuff, and maybe at the end of the day, start hugging her for a long time. She might want to kiss you. You can tell if she does if she stares into your eyes for a while. Try to make lots of eye contact, and just get an idea of where she stands, if she'll be open to being more than friends.
2006-12-12 15:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok ....first if you want to wait for your car...can you garantee she will not meet other guy and go out with him?....a relationship should be based on other stuff and not material ok .....can't you see she enjoys talking to you ....so the next move would be go somewhere together and start day by day ...telling her something she can have in her mind....something like....gosh what you done to yourself that blouse or whatever looks so nice on you ....and you can interrupt her again and tell her ....man!!! what is wrong with you today your smile it is great ...then while she talks just act like you are staring at her lips .....but do not be that obvious ok
make her feel that you like her ....but not with words ....ok but again do not be too obvious
we women do anything for a men that enjoy see us...enjoy talking to us...and enjoy admiring us ...you get it!
2006-12-12 15:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are getting your car ready and you want her to be the first to ride in it. Set a date for that...take her somewhere quiet and pretty...tell her how you feel.
She's into you or you wouldn't have any friendship.Just see how
far it goes. Be willing to accept what the answer is.....
I think honesty is your best bet. She's a smart girl, she already
knows your into her, put your cards on the table. If you wait too long, she'll be asked out by someone else.
2006-12-12 15:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, if you are really only in Jr high, you are the smoothest talker...
You don't need my advice - you are articulate enough to talk the pants off a kangaroo. (not that that's what you're after)
You are already friends. Start there. Friends take friends out in cars when they start driving. Good place to be alone for a few minutes. Take her for a coke, for a ride.
Kiddo, you are gonna have no problem with "smooth transitions". (Dear god, if only I were 15...)
2006-12-12 15:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it, ur just friends, since u just showed urself as just a friend with lil interest its going to freak her out now that u acted interested, u can be either friends or nothing, bc if she agress to going with its going to change everything
2006-12-12 15:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE ONLINE ANSWERING QUESTIONS OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING.
2006-12-12 15:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Peter Griffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋