Do you think it's possible to be 'destined' to meet someone?
2006-12-12 15:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course- everyone is destined to meet someone! Nothing happens by chance. It's all God's will. True love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with thier soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question.
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe.
2006-12-15 08:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love does exist. Love at first sight doesn't; it's infatuation. You are not destined to meet someone. It's all chance.
2006-12-12 15:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love exists in the extent that a person can look upon their love and know that whatever their differences they will remain loving each other. Love at first sight....I'm not a subscriber to this theory, perhaps lust at first sight and subsequently convincing oneself they will do anything to be with that person... Forever love is in existence fully between most parents and their children, some spouses have that 'forever love' with each other and certainly God has a forever love for all humans. The name for this type is unconditional love, that you accept anything that happens. Who put a limit to the "worse" that spouses vow to be with each other for?
2016-05-23 16:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Greta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I fell in love at first sight and it ws true.
2006-12-12 15:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love does exist.....but you have to be open/ willing to see it.....
2006-12-12 16:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by charmed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no and if so its hard to find its good at first then your partner flip
2006-12-12 15:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,yes and yes.......I believe that things happen for a reason
2006-12-12 15:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋